because they're there every week and that when/if they see you there, they will probably think that you are stalking them and/or just out to ruin their night (this would not actually be the case). And it's not a choice of going to this specific place or going somewhere else, it's going there or staying in.
Probably not the best idea? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
(And it's true, I am unable to think for myself/make decisions without asking the internet for advice)