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made your feelings known to them?
I want fireworks spelling out a message and stuff...
while we were outside for a cigarette in a dark alley. I then proceeded to fall over because I was drunk.
but making feelings known etc.
but it was quite recent, so who knows.
lying on the floor beside her. "i think we should go out". needless to say she said no. sigh. where i went wrong i do not know.
you just made a statement.
Scared of rejection and all that.
I just wait 'til they start raping my face with their tongue before I let it be known how I feel.
what was the best text you sent?
mostly soppy stuff like "i really like you, you're wonderful" etc.
i'm rubbish at these things though.
But a friend of mine somehow ended up going out with a girl after going up to her (drunk) at a party and saying "Ultimate?", and nothing else.
what Max did in Hollyoaks...
I once asked a girl out through a friend on the phone. She said she'd go out with me on the condition that I wouldn't dump her. Come monday I dumped her, I didn't even see her.
i started it off with the ponys' 'i wanna fuck you', then 'across the sea', cos she lives in new york. i can't remember the full playlist, but it had other songs about wanting to fuck someone and loving someone over great distances. i didn't think i was being obvious with it, at all.
i like it. i made a girl a mixtape recently but it had no romantic songs on it, just songs by bands like DOA and hardcore stuff she probably already had.
i even shyed away from putting my favourite descendents song on it as it was a bit to suggestive.
(i know i said mixtape, but i meant cd) before she even got to play it and 'i wanna fuck you' was the only song left on it that played. but, it became her favourite song and she said she listens to it every day and thinks about me. i think it worked.
or do you not have any interesting stories on the subject?
im just wondering how i should tell this girl i like her...
and it will work itself out somehow.
that was the advice i was given
i take that advice back anyway.
there really is no easy way about these things though, you just have to do it and get it overwith really. Good luck and all :)
i hope im successful but its complicated!
she's still with me.
does she like hardcore then? (the music before anyone makes a pun)
"what the world needs now, is love sweet love".....and the rest of that song down the phone to someone who is now an ex. He thought it was terribly cute and came over at around 2am (after phonecall) to find me passed out, curled up on the sofa, phone still in hand. Put me to bed and looked after me the next day.
sing drunkenly down the phone to you? :D
He's a sweetheart. And I think the reason we didn't work is that he'd pretty much have done anything for me....no challenge there. And massive amounts of room to take the piss.
was never going to happen.
Alex-in-Ciderland: Selling out since 20 November 1979
who used to make paper aeroplanes all the time. Once, I got hold of one, unfolded it and wrote on it: 'don't tell anyone I asked if you say no but do you want to be my boyfriend?'
Then two boxes to tick underneath; yes or no.
Then I folded it back up and threw it at him and told him to open it.
He said yes. We held hands and everything.
Cutest thing I've read all day.
I wish it still worked like that.
on a street that the girl was going to walk down, with an engagement ring out in my hands for her.
she did say yes tho.
and the ring was from a little egg outside of a newsagents. 20p.
but we had already decided to get married before that. then a few months later she dumped me n that.
i think she still has it
everytime she sets eyes on it?
how is it unsuitable? all i said was that we were sort of engaged and that she ended the relationship. why try and make dramatic fuss?
as with a lot of stuff on these here social boards. Plus, how the hell was I supposed to know she posted on here?(is she even does).
tell. PM me! Did you get it on with nasty girl in the end?
"do you want to touch my willy? regularly?"
it was at a party and i was in a weird mood and she was drunk. she said yes. so we had some fun but then ive never seen her again.
magic willy touching lady
the time brian fantana was in love
"Would you like to be my boyfriend?"
(a bit drunk)
He laughed in my face. I wanted the ground to open up and swallow me!
But then he said yes. I guess I WAS being a little coy.
i've asked a guy out once ever. and he didn't hear me clearly at first; it went like this: "Do you want to go out some time?" "What?" "Do you want to go out sometime?" "Yeah."
I did that once. It was pretty embarassing. I'd been hanging out around her house just chatting, and then we watched Ghost World, then I had to leave because it was getting kind of late:
"So I was thinking, do you want to go out sometime?"
"Y'know, like one of those date things."
"Oh. Oh! Oh, that's so sweet. No."
It later emerged she said no because I wasn't Jewish. Damn racists.
Rather than hear.
BUT THE EMBARASSMENT IS THE SAME.
had watched Ghost World with me and then asked me out, I would fall in love with them right then and there. (In theory.)
At the end she rolled over and kissed me. I was a bit surprised.
Why does it never work when I try to engineer these kinds of situations?
Only film that's worked for me so far is The Big Sleep. A matinee showing. We sat next to an old man who spent half an hour peeling an orange. At the end we emerged, lit up some cigarettes (because Bogart does that to you) and realised we both wanted, nay, needed to own fedoras and trenchcoats in the immediate now.
God that was fun.
because usually such situation doesn't need such prying because a)such situation evolves into a messy, destructive relationship, or b) duch situation usually ends up in sex(most prefariably, one-night-stands.and for a 17 year old, i've had WAY too many.)
I just seem to end up kissing them, and that's usually a sign that it's a more than friends type situation.
that I can think of, but I'd already slept with him before that so I don't know if it counts.
i was (and still is, kinda) a playa. i'm pratically, the younger blacker version of tucker max.
BUMP BUMP BUMP
i might have a story to tell on friday though, as im hoping to ruin a friendship with someone by doing this!
and i bet she does likes you.
that I didn't think he wasn't repulsive to women.
In retrospect I think I was wrong.
that's probably not that good.
as we walked through the park.
something i would never think of trying.
then me singing about how I liked her over it.
It was also her birthday, see.
that's so unflichingly cute.
you have to say how it went, people!
Just as I pulled the string to turn it on, and then ran off without hearing the message.
that's perfectly sad :(
would destroy me. how are you not a husk.
I am a husk.
I can't handle all these questions!
But no, seriously, I now only want my intercourse clinical and preferably short, with as little eye contact as possible. I don't even want to hear their names.
Or maybe I just need the right girl to mend my broken spirits and soften me to the world again...
what does it say?
incident, im suprised you can even post on dis. girls have accounts too you know.
casette. same thing.
it might have made me dark and bitter somehow?
even more so since i misread your name as "dearth". he actualy likes the b sides!
so long as she didnt realise what you were about to play, its cool. if she did. I cant imagine the horror.
"I know you've been really down recently and all what with your ex-boyfriend dumping you and that, but I think this statue has a really special birthday message for you."
thats pretty horrific. Id have almost felt anger.
I've got with girls and they've made it clear whether or not they're interested. I have then MTFU'd and asked them out later for a drink, or whatever situation to see them again. Which has led to sex. Which has led to going out (if that is what is wanted at that point).
Everything is very clinical to me.
do you mean like "surgical" clincal?
Surgical might add a new interesting dimension. But on the downside it would take years of professional training.
I think I like cold anonymity too much. Transactional.
but its not very easy... i think she might like but im not sure as nothing has happened and shes not said anything specific other than, was nice to see you.. and just little indications that i get when im with her. We have been to the cinema together and hung out a fair bit but nothing has happened.
She had a boyfriend when i met her, but hasnt mentioned him since, and i dont know if shes still with him.
Im currently home and she is home as well, and we get on really well and i really like her as a friend so i dont wanna ruin that.
what should i do?
1) Don't make any move unless you know she's single.
2) Don't do anything rash.
3) Don't expect any decent advice from an internet message board.
Just bust out a boombox with this baby on it:
im realy sorry.
but find out if she does have a boyfriend still. because if she does, the rules are you never speak to her again.
well that sucks coz shes quite cool. i mean if she doesnt like me id still like to be friends
this is what it was REALY designed for.
just dont wanna look like a stalker
then it's ok to add her.
ive no idea how id go about tracking her down. also is it weird she hasnt added me yet?
she might not use it much. tracking her down should be well easy if you know her full name and where she lives, which I'm assuming you do.
the stalkers choice.
and then honestly, the best thing you can do probably is go with your gut on if she likes you or not. Or hope that she'll make a move first before you even have to do anything.
just less obvious
Then you're free to ask her out right there and then.
Of course if she does have one then frankly you're never going to be able to talk to her ever again, what with the crushing embarassment.
definitely don't do that. but don't you know any people in common? like do you have any close friends who know her too and might know if she has one still, whom you could ask and they wouldn't tip her off to you asking. though that might not be the worst thing either.
Also, stalk her Facebook. Seriously, the amount of information people leave on there...
Facebook stalking for the fucking win.
which sucks, i just met her where she works. being up at uni means i dont know loads of people really.
they'd probably definitely tell her though. idk, how much is she hanging out with you? because if it's substantial enough, you can probably safely assume she hasn't got a boyfriend anymore. how did you get around to talking about whether or not she had one the first time?
i saw her 3/4 times in a week, one of which was just me and her for like a day. ive been texting her a lot since we came home as well, just talking and stuff.
she brought him up just after i met her, in quite a strange way, but despite talking about friends and that hasnt mentioned him since.
Then she sees you as "like a brother," considering that much hanging out time.
the other i saw her out with her friend at a club and was hanging out with them, including her on her own for a while, and the third time was the two of us. i hope you are right
if she likes you and also doesn't have a boyfriend anymore, i would think she'd want to somehow let you know she doesn't have a boyfriend anymore. it sounds like maybe she likes you and does still have one, and that's why she doesn't mention him. but then she's spent all that time with you. idk, she could just be revving up to eventually ask you out. like maybe things look like they're headed for the pits with him, but it's just not quite over yet, etc. i don't know, it's hard to tell over the internet, eh?
so i dont know how you would manage! thanks though. ill guess ill see how it goes for a little while then just man up :)
strangely similar to my situation. well, kind of.
try some hinting first, and see how she responds. If that goes well, have a Serious Talk (I know they're really fucking horrible but there's no way around them sometimes). If it doesn't go too well, you have to just consider if you want to take a chance and tell her anyway, or if you want to wait (even longer). Face to face is obviously the only decent way to do these things, no matter how scary.
im scared though because i know itll make the friendship weird... but i just hope she does like me. I mean she has given me signals. whats your situation?
but once you like someone that much it kind of changes your relationship anyway you know? and if it turns out she doesn't like you that way, if she's a decent person at all she won't like stop talking to you or not see you again because of it.
erm, my situation... a friend who's "on a break" with his pre-uni girlfriend and avoided me for months because he liked me and then admitted to it and just can't make up his mind about anything.
thats not good. Id say dont less him mess you around but i know its not that simple.
And yeah i hope if she doesnt like me she might just carry on as normal... but i dunno.
but if she is that great then maybe it's worth taking that risk? :)
she likes hardcore for a start, and is really nice and pretty.
again, best of luck, and be sure to let us know how it works out ;)
Bred a breed of dogs that bark goes "I love you"
Killed a dictator
Given them a disease
Looked directly into a solar eclipse with a pair of binoculars
POST OF THE YEAR : 'Invent a new breed of dogs that bark I LOVE YOU'.
*chuckle grin laugh ha ha.
not sure how she could fail to be charmed :o
which i think i apologised at the end. good work.
"I'm travelling to the rocky hostile world of Macragge to defeat Marneus Calgar and his army of Ultramarines with my genetically engineered Tyranid Hive Fleet. Would you care to join me?"
i gave a girl i didn't know (and had barely spoke to) a note telling her to call me so we could go out. a few days later i got a text asking when i wanted to go for a drink. i replied sayign i didn't want to go out with her and i had made an error.
however the best way someone has made their feelings known to me was by sending me a 'how to draw pokémon' book after someone posted on DiS that it would be the best way for someone to tell me they like me.
and just started referring to him as my boyfriend. It worked out - we're moving in!
forever complaining that she'd never had the type of intricate birthday cakes that all of her friends seemed to have as a kid. She was particularly jealous of her cousin who'd had this dinosaur cake, a complex affair which involved Cadbury's Fingers to create a stegosaurus, etc
In something of a high risk move I went to a patisserie and asked them to make a dinosaur cake. They duly created an awesome confection in the shape of a Tyrannosaurus Rex (what says 'I'm into you' more than a T-Rex, right?).
On her birthday we met up in the pub and I presented her with this cake. She was thrilled, kissed me, I asked her out and she was my girlfriend for 5 years.
The one downer is the fact that I haven't met anyone who is worth making that sort of effort for in a long time.
None of them that good.
In a pub listening to Pet Shop Boys 'West End Girls.'
'Do you want to be my east end girl?' (She lived in Shitechapel.)
said yes, thank god.
agree, if I'm honest.
for a year almost every weekend to see a girl i fancied but was too scared to talk to her. I eventually managed to get into a conversation with her at one of her brother's gigs and then after a few weeks of awkwardness asked her to the cinema. i felt like a total tool but when i was dropping her home i asked her a la donnie darko if she would 'go with me' or something cringe-inducingly along those lines. she said yes though and we've been together for five years :)
was in berlin i walked up to a stranger who i liked the look of and said "kiss me, you're beautiful, these are truly the last days" and she did kiss me. although she didn't get the godspeed reference it made me well happy. i never saw her again though. such is life.
and then in real life, in response to him saying something.
'um, you can be my boyfriend if you like, and i'll be your girlfriend'
and no, this wasn't when i was 7 :(
I wish someone would do that to me.
*swiftly mans the fuck up*