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decision making
does anyone else feel like they've floated through life without ever actually proactively making a decision??
i do, it's very annoying. my life isn't too bad at all but i can't shake the feeling that i have no control over it.
maybe i need to start actually thinking about things.
No
I make decisions all the time. Other people make me make theirs too.
how is it?
Faster than the alternative
how big are these decisions?
like what clothes to wear?
or
what career to choose?
Not life changiningly big
Chinese or Indian
Chinese
Totally
I'm completely indecisive - I walked in and out of Asda three times yesterday because I couldn't decide if I wanted a microwave lasagne for lunch. IThe only area in which I do seem to be decisive about is wasting money on impulse purchases, which I can always convince myself are a good idea.
I don't feel that
but I have noticed that if I want something to happen in life I generally spend ages trying to make it happen without success. And then said thing happens anyway in a manner entirely unrelated to any action on my part.
sometimes.
Just don't think too much.
I think the only big decision I've had to make recently is whether to move across the country and start a new job where I didn't really know anyone.
Nope
I spent 8 years as a football referee. I made decisions alright. Many may have been wrong, but decisions they were.
But in real life I tend to bumble along with the flow.
yeah
i don't really even mean making the right decision. just making a choice of any kind and going through with it.