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that you like but a date isnt appropriate
anyone have an idea?
coz that could be weird
ha yeah you are right i suppose. But i just imagined you were talking about london and i cant afford to go there just now.
but its fabrics or something at the moment and i dont think i will be able to not get bored. Although thanks for the advice!
and all the corpses.
but i think she likes 60s architecture from when we were talking, as she likes my uni which is all concrete and stuff... and if i took he somewhere like that id look like i dont know anything!
this is hard!
Wow! I love almost everything 60s, but I don't think I've met anyone who likes 60s architecture. Its like highrise flats and all that sort of thing innit? Ew!
our uni is kind of cool though with all the concrete pyramids and stuff.
well we went out last week to town and stuff but i want to do something different. Shes cool and i like her, but she did have a boyfriend when i first met her and i dont want to be muscle in or anything because that is horrible. But i dont know if she still does have a boyfriend, and im happy just being friends.
If all this makes sense?
and hardcore and punk music. which i did impress her with i think :)
and say TA DAH!
she will fall for u!
Its difficult though!
claim you have to buy something, then maybe stop off for a coffee mid way, say this.
Then when your browsing a selection and varied range of shops do small talk, that way u will uncover interests, tastes and common ground which u can then talk over a coffee or pint mid break.... its shopping so its not a date
whilst exposing your balls?
in her company, so that she can choose. Will take ages & lots of talk time.
ive never made a mixtape for anyone before
the girl's into punk. Won't be a romantic mix tape.
she saw my punk vinyl records and liked them... so im thinking i can record them to a cd for her.
Most times when a boy who likes you takes you out to do stuff with him, it's pretty obvious what he's trying to do.
If you don't make it obvious enough, you'll just be relegated to a "nice guy" who'll never be more than a friend.
Ask her out for lunch or something. Or just suggest going out for a drink or a picnic or breakfast or wotever.
or did have i dont know. My friend (who is a girl) thinks she likes me but yeah i just wouldnt feel right.
after having gotten a t-shirt made up saying: "I am better than any boyfriend you may or may not have." Then wear it, and boom! Results.
You don't have to say like, "Do you want to go on a DATE with me?" and turn up wearing a tux with a rose between your teeth.
But just make it obvious enough that you want to spend time with her on your own because you quite like her.
See if there's an interesting film festival near you, or gallery, or just say "Oh, I know this really great salad bar/café/vegetarian restaurant/Italian place/bakery. Wanna come?"
Or if she ever says something really annoying like "I'm booored!@!!!!1", grab the opportunity to take her on a whirlwind tour of 'Places I like'. That's always nice. Show her your favourite shop, favourite park, favourite building, favourite whatever.
My friend did that for me. It woz funn.
and yeah they seem like good ideas thanks! Ill just have to put thought into it all, i mean i think she might know i do quite like her and stuff, but then again shes made it no more obvious than me and i have no idea so its all confusing!
stay up late drunk philosophising about the world?
Walk along southbank on a sunday from the wheel down to the gerkin? dont know if thats too date-ish (best date i ever had)
I've always found that crazy golf is a great date idea.....you get to make loads of innuendo about gripping the shaft and getting it in the hole too..FTW!!!
I swear to god, people never get bored of that stuff, at the heart of everyone is a suppressed Carry-On movie fan!
Just call her Princess and slap her playfully about the derriere each time she goes fpr a shot!
in all seriousness though. i think i would probably die if i ever attempted that :P
And stand there going "yeah? yeah?"
Maybe whirl it around like a lassoo.
Mark her out of 100 for response.