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How do you react?
(Specifically in an argument when she has a very good reason to do so)
if you (the man) have been a bastard to her
obviously if she just starts sobbing for no reason that's a stupid thing to do
you may need to do this a couple of times.
and I will try to avoid the crying but just want to know how bad it would be if I do start crying
I have a terrible nervous reaction of laughing.
It doesn't help the situation at all.
was that he said I could stay with him+his friend in London cause I had nowhere to stay from Saturday till Monday, but he then decided to not reply to any of my texts or pick up the phone when I repeatedly tried calling him. There is a long history of this kind of thing, but this was less than a week after he admitted to liking me and told me he's on a break with his girlfriend.
That doesn't really sound as bad as it is
of his ignoring me was that I had to leave London, which he knew but just didn't care about I suppose.
is by judo skillz to the teeth.
he has another girl friend?!
because he's had that girlfriend up until very recently.
Wasting your time. Well, probably
but that's no reason for him to treat me like shit, we're supposed to be friends, etc.
people can't treat you like shit if you don't let them. Of course no-one here can come to a solid conclusion on him but (a) he would seem to be treating his current girlfriend like shit and (b) is apparently treating you like shit. Steer well clear
I've just not really given him any shit before so going to that at least before the steering clear. I'll spend all day manning up though so I won't sob.
he has the 'why doesnt he like me appeal' 'treat em mean keep em kean' pathetic women!! *spitS*
*hangs head in shame*
Man the fuck up, don't even think about balling, and get rid of this chump.
Another day, another problem solved on Drowned In Sound, Britain's premier miffling prevention squad.
I will man the fuck up
plus the acronym is PMS.
said everything that needed to be said.
I'm afraid that you should be ashamed of yourself, whiterussian.
Get shut of him and find someone decent.
Just headbutt him or something.
would be far more satisfying.
.. he may not consider your reason to be as convincing as you do. Hence the argument element to the situation.
but would the crying in itself not be pretty convincing?
Just what is required to emotuionally blackmail somebody.
I think you'd just make a fool of yourself. He obviously knew what would happen if he didn't answer the phone but he did it anyway.
Save your tears for someone who deserves them sister.
like I said I hope I can manage to avoid it. But I've spent just an hour manning up now and feel much better already, so I doubt there will be any crying.
sorry, I meant punch her in the face and steal her handbag.
and wait for the sobbing to stop
how many more comedy responses dya reckon we can get out of this?
that's what I do
that or offer tea
If I feel we're approaching an argument I put my fingers in my ears and say "la la la I'm not listening to you"
and cop a feel?
and feel a cop