I've had recent realisations that some of my 'friends' are manipulative, lying, fucked up, neurotic, self absorbed and self obsessed, rude and petty individuals.

This is a fairly depressing moment for me but at the same time I feel pretty calm about it as the realisation has hit whereas I think I had been tolerating certain wrong behaviours for too long.

This surely isn't normal, is it? I've been an adult for a long time (am aware this has elements of teen angst in it) but in some ways, this makes it a lot worse when you realise that the people around you who you trust are complete and utter cunts.

What to do? Has anyone here else experience this in their adult life?