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and had their own social lives, instead of relying on me to create theirs. Funny how the tables turn, innit.
instead i get stuck without a good excuse to miss going out to pubs i hate in a dead end town and i could be totally smooching a girl
Fair enough, if you're married or engaged or whatever, she comes first. But if you've got a normal, everyday girlfriend, putting her before your mates is not on.
It screws you up. My best mate for the best part of upper school now has absolutely no male friends, but sees his bird daily, and yeah, probably has a lot of sex.
But I'd rather go out every few weeks with fantastic males and possibly kiss a lady every now and again - but if not, no loss.
Its a question of soul (H)
yeah my good mates dont cry if i see my gf instead of them. they understand. but then again i still try make time for them as well
If mates are proper mates then they shouldn't fuck you off for some slag for six months, then come crawling back.
I've told many a people to fuck off after they've tried it with me.
these days think their friendship should be treated as if it's a homosexual relationship? A mate is a mate, that's it. Don't make things so difficult.
making things difficult between oneself and a girlfriend, etc. Almost sounded like I was implying that lots of men are trying to wank off their mates.
I was out the other night and noticed a girl that caught my eye. Later in the evening I decided to introduce myself to her and chat for a bit (given the situation I was in, this wasnt really a difficult thing to do, even though its nearly always the hardest), however, about two or three sentences in she said:
"I love the Courteeners"
This put my right off.
Question: Am I shallow?
If I'm honest with myself.
youre so keen on it....
going onto the internet to complain about your mates spending more time with their girlfriends than yous is infinitely more tragic. Just go up to them and give them a big girly kiss and tell them you'll be more of a woman for them than any of your rivals ever could be
Tongue them. Tongue them desperately.
would be to have either friends OR a romantic relationship.
my entire social life revolves around my girlfriend and her friends (all of whom are girls)
i have serious difficulty understanding why a man would want to spend time with other men, frankly. they're boring
Even if we are more unchallenging, sometimes that's a good thing, compared to the headfuck that most girls are.
good friends are guys. sometimes i find it hard trusting girls but my girlfriends are absolutely amazing. :)
who he spends time with and the nature of his relationship with his girlfriend.
some like clingy, some like to more or less keep their friends and girlfriend separate.
though i agree that it is about striking a balance, one which is very hard to achieve.
as i see it, you make someone your girlfriend because you value you them above most other people, otherwise they would just be a friend. so it would seem to logical to spend more time with the partner rather than the friends.
it's a dilemma of sorts.
never go out and just stay home rutting my girlfriend. my friends stopped asking me out and when i broke up with my girlfriend i had to force myself back into the looooop...
its not a good situation to be in. dont do it.