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Don't you hate it when people say they'll do something then change their mind at the last minute?
she used me when she didn't have anyone else to go out with, then cancelled when i wanted to go out.
i cut her loose.
Actually, sorry, can't make it. I disagree.
For example, the mate that backed out of seeing British Sea Power with me tomorrow to see fucking AIR TRAFFIC. He truly deserves death upon his head...
Seeing Air Traffic, for example. Ugh.
it really does twist the knife, that.
if i can scrape together enough cash moniessss
see you there. SIBLEY AHOY!!
or how firm the plans were.
sometimes stuff comes up.
a) a lot
b) not very, but still...
c) he's knackered apparently, and will be staying in
pretty sure I am one of these people
wait sorry no
have made this more common.
people are incredibly late, and you can tell they made no effort to be on time.
lateness annoys me more than anything. It's like saying, well I've not made an effort, I obviously had more important things to do so fuck it, I'll meet you when I want to.
especially when they don't even say they've changed their minds, they just leave it altogether.
At least i get an apology by text sometimes. Some people don't even do that.
who would always let you down if you planned to do something. But would be reliable if it was a spur of the moment thing.
Luckily im not friends with them anymore.
that is the best way to make sure. If people can't make it,they can just say it was too short notice.
I don't intentionally let people down, I just don't plan my social things weeks in advance, and a "yeah I'll come" two weeks before isnt legally binding
Say: "I'm not sure, can I let you know nearer the time?"
Especially on a Saturday night. I had a little text-tantrum (you could say I sent a tantrumic text....
Ha. Feel better for that!
Saturday nights are when it matters most!
one person I know is probably the most unreliable person ever. She always pulls out of something or is late because she's "busy". Lame.
Sometimes things do come up though, I can completely understand if people have legitimate excuses. Except that's hardly ever the case!
I don't actually do it.
And I'm likely to turn up an hour or so late to any given thing.
Which is probably why people never ask me anywhere ever.
but he didn't get in contact.
cut and thrust world of drug dealing with that kind of laissez-faire attitude, is he?!
by consuming them himself.
probably fair. but he could've informed me!