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Do you have a 'best' friend, or instead lots of close friends?
I always say I have no best friend. But I do secretly...
I would consider them all equal, but if i had to choose one, I could.
Does that make sense?
then several other close friends who I wouldn't be quite so explicit with.
then we all left school and started University in 2006 and now I don't because I dropped out and re-started. *gets upset*
I'm my best friend's best friend so it works.
But I have this other mate who obsesses over this cock-end, who wants nothing to do with said-mate most of the time, and couldn't give two fucks about him. Its awful. But it happens.
maybe we should swap notes.
I just seem to fritter between lots of circles of friends who don't know the other circles (if that makes sense) without really having that best-mate-to-confide-in thing.
I'll just go write about it on my livejournal.
You're into that kinda stuff right?
and to answer the question: yes, two.
i hardly see either of them though, as i am living in london, and they are in devon and iceland respectively. but i have known one since i was about one, and we grew up together and all that. the other i've know since i was 6 or 7, and again we just kind of grew up together even though i lived in devon and he lived in london!
they are probably having this EXACT conversation right now. except probably not, as he isn't my best fwend.
and are we really the same age? how depressing. number of poptastic indie anthems written by me: 0, number by you: fuck knows.
who i am closer to. But i have more male friends who i would say were close friends and spend more time with
whom I've known for 20 years now (kind of scary really), and a best female friend. They're the two people I feel most at ease with. Though the dynamic between my best male friend and I keeps making me think of the two main characters in the film Sideways.
But I'm not their best friend. I don't think I'm anyone's best friend. Ho hum.
I argue with one of them all the time, the other one I life up her skirt and ridicule her. Best of friends, seriously.
-'Best friends' who are so-called as i grew up with them and have many shared memories, but don't see as much anymore, and don't have a lot in common with them, sadly.
-Friends i'd prefer to spend time with; not necessarily that close to/know them as well as 'best friends' but would often choose to spend time with them over ^
i don't get to see her very much (about once or twice a month) due to her still being in high school and doing lots of swimming competitions. She is the strangest person i know and she is awesome. She is probably the only person I've never been able to find fault with, which is really odd for me, being a bit of a bitch and all.
but I have a guy friend who I consider one of my closest :-)
she is the most lovely wonderful person in the world!!
best friends that ive been friends with since i started primary school
i'm a lot less close to everyone else.
but none of them associate with each other. they know each other and like each other, but don't hang out. and i only hang out with them one at a time. i've tried it before, but they kind of cancel each other out (?) and it just doesn't work. it's better for them to be separate. though, each best friend comes with a sub-set of friends attached to them.
i love her.