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Telling your mate that he should break up with his girlfriend...
Right my best mate of a few years has a girlfriend that hes been seeing a few months now. Thing is he shouldnt be with her. I dont dislike her that much personally, but shes just no good for him. How can i tell him this? He knows it too, but he just needs something to spark him into doing it.
Today he drove her up to stansted from southend and she didnt seem very grateful, she swears at him, takes his money, is generally embarassing, expects him to pick her up everywhere no matter what he is doing.
In addition to this the effect on him is a bit shite too. She makes him jealous by like encouraging, or not discouraging boys that come onto her and stuff, tries to stop him from going out, ruins nights when we are having fun, like tonight. Before her he used to be laidback and up for going out all the time, now he hardly seems to wanna and when she is in the same place he spends the whole time being wound up by her.
So in summation, she aint good. What can i do though? I tried letting him decide it himself but i dunno if he will ever make his mind up as although he knows she is like this, something is holding him back.:(