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who I was a PROPER twat to. Bad idea? Shall I get drunk?
get annoyed cos you didnt get laid
now. So thats not on the agenda. I'm just worried I will return home minus testicles/pride.
whose idea was it?
I get on really well with an ex from uni (We were together a long time) It took about 2 years after we broke up to be able to see each other and the first time was a little weird (don't get too drunk) but after that its really cool.
that we split up, April last year. We were together about a year, and I majorly hurt her. But I really want to try and stay friends as she was super lovely and cool and interesting.
I'll be nice to her, I'll treat her to a shandy. No really, I want to try and make ammends if I can, like some sort of penance. She may well still hate me though.
she won't want to see you.
Karma is good. Although I wouldn't try to make it up to her too much as guilt is never a good basis for a friendship.
Say you are sorry, but whats done is done (but don't say that!).
you don't make her think you want her back or something, don't confuse the poor girl
Approach with caution
thats what i do. emotional drinker cough cough.
are you apologising or is it just a 'let's be friends' drink?
women love men like that, true story that.
Just steer clear of relationship talk and of the past. It's good to do, make your peace. S'all about the karma.
the My Life Story t-shirt she got me from Ebay. Should probably change.
You should change it, yeah.
Some people read a lot into things like that. By some people, I mean girls.
(kudos for an MLS t-shirt though)
and are not to be trusted. Find new people, or something.
That's the way I see it.
i did it about a month ago and woke up the next day in her bed and spent the following week repeating 'im never ever ever ever drinking again!' over and over in my head!!!
remove all possibility of memory and banish as if never existing
try to sex her and cry when she turns you down.
most likely outcome.
"but I used to be a good shag!" either
bad idea, no real need to do it either, you're either after nekkidness or heartbreak.
see above, I'm seeing someone else now, and its a genuine attempt to make amends and restore Karma to my life. Its selfish I know, but its been bugging me of late.
and you sex her you will get a scorching case of herpes- I joke, understood :)
Last time I saw an ex was ironically on my wedding day at breakfast as she was seeing my best friend at the time, who had drunk himself into a stupor the night before. My ex was quite willing to be my best man instead that day, hilarious!
unless its been a very long time or you are absolutely desperate its not worth it...
I think. She lives in a different city at the moment but when she asked what I was doing tonight she didn't seem 'too' bothered.
There's nothing better than acknowledging you were a twat to her. I think it's a great idea.
hard to acknowledge, sadly.
when I sold her on the streets for crack and whores.
why would you do this? this is the kinda thing i do.
and don't try and stab her with your spam dagger.
I know how tempting it is, I actually got back with an ex after going for one of these meet-up drinks. It wasn't a good idea.
and funnily she enough, she fucked me over in the exact same way the second time around.
But where did you wake up this morning?
whats the point? Its like meeting a stranger for a drink, except you already know you don't get along
And I often go for drinks with her when she's at the right end of the country. Heal+grow Heal+grow Heal+grow Heal+grow
with testicles attached. It went quite well actually, we got on and she said she now only hates me a little bit. I didn't get drunk.