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Going for a drink with an ex

mdw4001 [Edit] [Delete] 47 replies 17:08, 8 January '08

who I was a PROPER twat to. Bad idea? Shall I get drunk?

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  • you will either:

    get laid

    or

    get annoyed cos you didnt get laid

    meths | 8 Jan '08, 17:09 | X
    • I'm with someone else

      now. So thats not on the agenda. I'm just worried I will return home minus testicles/pride.

      mdw4001 @meths | 8 Jan '08, 17:11 | X
      • dont go?

        meths @mdw4001 | 8 Jan '08, 17:12 | X
        • ^ This too

          ChrisJabe @meths | 8 Jan '08, 17:14 | X
  • are you going to be nice to her?

    whose idea was it?

    nice_squirrel | 8 Jan '08, 17:10 | X
  • How long ago did it end?

    I get on really well with an ex from uni (We were together a long time) It took about 2 years after we broke up to be able to see each other and the first time was a little weird (don't get too drunk) but after that its really cool.

    livingthedream | 8 Jan '08, 17:11 | X
    • It was ages ago

      that we split up, April last year. We were together about a year, and I majorly hurt her. But I really want to try and stay friends as she was super lovely and cool and interesting.

      I'll be nice to her, I'll treat her to a shandy. No really, I want to try and make ammends if I can, like some sort of penance. She may well still hate me though.

      mdw4001 @livingthedream | 8 Jan '08, 17:14 | X
      • I expect if she hates you

        she won't want to see you.

        Karma is good. Although I wouldn't try to make it up to her too much as guilt is never a good basis for a friendship.

        Say you are sorry, but whats done is done (but don't say that!).

        livingthedream @mdw4001 | 8 Jan '08, 17:19 | X
      • be careful

        you don't make her think you want her back or something, don't confuse the poor girl

        brusma @mdw4001 | 8 Jan '08, 17:47 | X
  • This could be like that episode of Friends with Julia Roberts in

    Approach with caution

    dove_from_above | 8 Jan '08, 17:12 | X
    • Hello tushy!

      bamos @dove_from_above | 8 Jan '08, 17:13 | X
      • Someone's flossing!

        colonol_k @bamos | 8 Jan '08, 17:18 | X
  • yep get drunk.

    thats what i do. emotional drinker cough cough.

    are you apologising or is it just a 'let's be friends' drink?

    walkingwithwolves | 8 Jan '08, 17:12 | X
  • if you a proper twat to her you will be able to sex her

    women love men like that, true story that.

    HarfynnTeuport | 8 Jan '08, 17:13 | X
    • hi

      klaire @HarfynnTeuport | 8 Jan '08, 17:49 | X
  • It'll be grand.

    Just steer clear of relationship talk and of the past. It's good to do, make your peace. S'all about the karma.

    bamos | 8 Jan '08, 17:15 | X
    • I'm wearing

      the My Life Story t-shirt she got me from Ebay. Should probably change.

      mdw4001 @bamos | 8 Jan '08, 17:18 | X
      • As excellent as that t-shirt is

        You should change it, yeah.

        colonol_k @mdw4001 | 8 Jan '08, 17:20 | X
        • ^ exactly this

          Some people read a lot into things like that. By some people, I mean girls.

          (kudos for an MLS t-shirt though)

          bamos @colonol_k | 8 Jan '08, 17:23 | X
          • LA galaxy?

            meths @bamos | 8 Jan '08, 17:32 | X
            • Tampa Bay Mutiny

              .

              mdw4001 @meths | 8 Jan '08, 17:38 | X
            • Colorado Twix?

              .

              Alex-in-Ciderland @meths | 8 Jan '08, 17:48 | X
  • Exes are ex people

    and are not to be trusted. Find new people, or something.

    That's the way I see it.

    Laton | 8 Jan '08, 17:15 | X
    • DONT DO IT!!!

      i did it about a month ago and woke up the next day in her bed and spent the following week repeating 'im never ever ever ever drinking again!' over and over in my head!!!

      no_flashlight @Laton | 8 Jan '08, 17:18 | X
    • this is easily the best way to cope with ex's

      remove all possibility of memory and banish as if never existing

      computerman5 @Laton | 8 Jan '08, 17:51 | X
      • Apologise, get drunk

        try to sex her and cry when she turns you down.

        yo_soy_welshmun | 8 Jan '08, 17:17 | X
        • ^

          most likely outcome.

          mdw4001 @yo_soy_welshmun | 8 Jan '08, 17:20 | X
          • and it's no good saying

            "but I used to be a good shag!" either

            yo_soy_welshmun @mdw4001 | 8 Jan '08, 17:22 | X
            • or "I've got better since then!"

              bad idea, no real need to do it either, you're either after nekkidness or heartbreak.

              amyblue @yo_soy_welshmun | 8 Jan '08, 17:26 | X
              • No no

                see above, I'm seeing someone else now, and its a genuine attempt to make amends and restore Karma to my life. Its selfish I know, but its been bugging me of late.

                mdw4001 @amyblue | 8 Jan '08, 17:31 | X
                • well if it's karma

                  and you sex her you will get a scorching case of herpes- I joke, understood :)

                  Last time I saw an ex was ironically on my wedding day at breakfast as she was seeing my best friend at the time, who had drunk himself into a stupor the night before. My ex was quite willing to be my best man instead that day, hilarious!

                  amyblue @mdw4001 | 8 Jan '08, 17:46 | X
      • in my experience...

        unless its been a very long time or you are absolutely desperate its not worth it...

        computerman5 | 8 Jan '08, 17:30 | X
      • She is ok with it

        I think. She lives in a different city at the moment but when she asked what I was doing tonight she didn't seem 'too' bothered.

        mdw4001 @twee_loser | 8 Jan '08, 18:01 | X
      • Woah - Impressed!

        There's nothing better than acknowledging you were a twat to her. I think it's a great idea.

        Fab-City | 8 Jan '08, 17:58 | X
        • It wasn't

          hard to acknowledge, sadly.

          ;-(

          mdw4001 @Fab-City | 8 Jan '08, 18:02 | X
          • It really got out of hand

            when I sold her on the streets for crack and whores.

            mdw4001 @twee_loser | 8 Jan '08, 18:08 | X
          • good god man

            why would you do this? this is the kinda thing i do.

            sharp_yet_blunt | 8 Jan '08, 18:07 | X
          • Just be mega nice

            and don't try and stab her with your spam dagger.

            I know how tempting it is, I actually got back with an ex after going for one of these meet-up drinks. It wasn't a good idea.

            scarfo | 8 Jan '08, 18:14 | X
            • This is what I did at one point in the past

              and funnily she enough, she fucked me over in the exact same way the second time around.

              Dalkin @scarfo | 9 Jan '08, 13:53 | X
          • I may have missed this elsewhere

            But where did you wake up this morning?

            livingthedream | 9 Jan '08, 13:49 | X
          • Unless you've stayed friends

            whats the point? Its like meeting a stranger for a drink, except you already know you don't get along

            DanielKelly | 9 Jan '08, 13:51 | X
          • I went to ATP with my ex

            And I often go for drinks with her when she's at the right end of the country. Heal+grow Heal+grow Heal+grow Heal+grow

            Royter-Hatfood | 9 Jan '08, 13:54 | X
            • I returned home

              with testicles attached. It went quite well actually, we got on and she said she now only hates me a little bit. I didn't get drunk.

              mdw4001 @Royter-Hatfood | 9 Jan '08, 15:57 | X
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