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I.e. doing bad things with someone in a relationship, but you not being.
Sort of brilliant?
wait till you fall in love and they won't leave their other
am happily in a proper relationship, but just before that was the other person.
She seemed surprisingly surprised when I ditched her siting "but you are going out with someone else" as a reason.
And to be honest, if you were going to have two boyfriends, you wouldnt want one of them to be me.
Grumpy/smelling of fosters etc.
About a year ago, I was getting on remarkably well with a housemates friend on a night out and it looked like in all probability we were going to get it on that evening.
Then she let slip she had a boyfriend and I walked.
if the person Knows the other has a partner then it's just as bad tbh.
but the flesh is weak. So so weak.
Suffice to say I dont like the idea of Mrs Huntspill cheating on me, but if she did i would blame her rather than the other party.
if the cheatee is aware then they're just as bad.
because ultimately its the person you are with that you'd place trust in. It wouldn't hurt to be considerate of the feelings of people regardless of whether or not you know them though. The world would be a much nicer place if we all felt a little responsibility for each other
and futhermore; how could you ever trust someone who was cheating on their partner to be with you?
i was kinda hoping someone would explain why it's silly but whatevs.
i see your point.
i guess from experience (not my own but people i know) the other party has always known the original partner which i think makes it just as bad, especialy if they are/were friends. but from another point of view, if the other party has no contact with the partner then it's definately more the cheaters fault.
I don't know you or your cirumstance, but if you were my friend and I found out, I'd kill you
great way to keep it a secret, put it on an internet forum.
his relationship with end soon after you were with her?
a whole different bag of bitches.
You are going to hell.
The clocks ticking. Then you face social isolation and maybe an ass kicking. You'd deserve it to.
i used to, but i got bored.
major league twat who is physically abusing them or something, but, in that instance I'd question whether a girl who was willing to put up with that was the right person for me anyway.
We live in decadent times, but, I think it's morally wrong. Apart from anything else it's the very worst type of karma and automatically renders any sympathy for you utterly void when someone (inevitably) does the same to you.
who met her current boyfriend whisklt he was married to someone else. he left his wife for her, and now she wont entertain talk of marriage or kids (both of which he wants) coz she says, how do i know you wont cheat on me?
and not in any way completely unsustainable.
"wheres your wedding pics now eh?"
if they'll do it with you why wouldn't they do it on you? don't fool yourself into thinking you're special!
which I didnt emphasise very well was the whole doing it for something to do, rather than actually wanting to be with them as a couple.
For some reason that is sort of fun. Even though I realise that looks nasty written down.
it is fun. i agree.
... which makes you the big man faced tranny one.
Honestly. Sweet fucking christ.
is heartbreaking for some one else
i think its wrong and i'd feel like a shit if i did it to someone
(which i wouldnt)
and intentionally make it as crap as possible. That'll learn em.
I was the cheatee for a brief while in October. The girl in question was adamant that this 19 year old kid who lived at her house was just her 'best friend' and not her serious boyfriend.
To top this off, she told me and my housemates he was GAY! Which is even more undignified, I would say. But I just played along with it 'cause she was cute and a bit kooky.
Now she's going out with the guy in question's best friend, he has retaliated by being atypically emo and myspacey. I used to gloat evilly at the thought of his floppy hair and pout while she was at my house and he was at hers on her own, but now I feel really bad for the guy.
This girl just seems hell bent on destroying him. I often wonder why?
he looks a bit bummed, oh you broke up, that's too bad
I guess it's fair if he always pays the rent
and doesn't get bent about sleeping on the couch when I'm there
Fucking dandy warhols lyrics is about THE harshest thing I've ever heard - he's screwing the girl and her boyfriend has to just deal with it, harsh..!
who was seeing his former college tutor (hot in itself before you factor in how fit she was) for a couple of months. then her cohabiting boyfriend got wind of it. turns out he is a 6ft 5in psycho with an equally psycho dad who has done time for all sorts of ridiculous thuggery. anyway, he threw a brick through our front window while we were watching Hogan Knows Best. cunt. he then threatened to kill my mate.
moral of the story, don't get involved with anyone ever as it always ends in a shower of broken glass.
The 'Hogan Knows Best' detail!
sadly i don't have mtv anymore
What a wanker.
not that i would know. although seeing the person who's in a relationship getting their comeuppance might well be fun, the lousy cunt.
Then of course I wouldn't. But if it's some stranger who sounds like a knob, I just think 'meh. sucks to be him'.
A female friend thinks this is really terrible!
they can treat you like that