Your are viewing a read-only archive of the old DiS boards. Please hit the Community button above to engage with the DiS !
all from boys i have massive crushes on.
one broke my heart, one was not interesting and one made my heart hopeful :)
we're "on a break".
I've been wondering about that too. How does an open marriage actually work? Is it a bit like a fuck buddy setup, but you know you're always going to come back to the same person at the end of the fling?
I can't get my head around it. I'm not trying to put you down - please don't think that - I'm just genuinely curious. Perhaps more curious in your case because you use the word 'love' quite often in your threads about your boys.
but so far it's been fine. he doesn't mind me seeing other boys and i don't mind him seeing other girls. i mean, we get a bit jealous, but then we get over it. we don't see other people that often anyways, i just get lots of crushes all the time :(
the three above-mentioned people all live in different cities from me, all at least 1000 miles away.
and ya i just use the word "love" a lot cause i dont' see the point in playing down such an emotion that i feel towards people, as i know how it feels to "like" someone, so i just say "love" instead of "really really like". that is, when i'm talking ABOUT the situation, not when i'm talking to THEM about my feelings, cause people freak when they hear the word LOVE!!!! does this make sense???
i'm going to work now..bybye!
Does it REALLY? Call me old fashioned, but when I got married, we both really thought it was for life; if that weren't the case I never would have married in the first place and I don't believe my ex would have either.
This sounds like a fuck buddy situation taken a bit too seriously to me. I just hope someone doesn't get badly burned. I had the opportunity to get married to a few ex fb's but turned them down because I recognised the situation exactly for what it was; the need for comfort and sex in a faux relationship. Marriage is a different creature entirely.
I reckon this will be how Tristan is living.
- no. I can't believe you made me say that in public!
hugs anyway though, yeah? :)
Romantic and such?
And plus you can go around referring to her as 'my wife'. I really want to be able to do that with someone one day, I think it'd be really cool.
Its the whole 'wife' thing is the only problem, you'd need to get a sex change is all. I mean I can deal with that, you know, I'm open-minded, but... it is kind of a big step is all, you might want to think this one through a little more.
He told me to shut up :')
just in case anyone was wondering what my message status was.
an open marriage is an oxymoron no?
WE GOT MARRIED FOR CITIZENSHIP ISSUES AS WE ARE FROM DIFFERENT COUNTRIES AND ARE BEST FRIENDS AND LOVE EACH OTHER VERY MUCH AND DID NOT WANT TO BE FOREVER SEPERATED BY AN OCEAN!!! MARRIAGE WAS THE ONLY WAY SO THAT WE CAN WORK IN EACH OTHERS COUNTRIES!!!!
It makes me sad.
it's just people are always on my case about this and i've already explained the whole workvisa/marriage thing a million times!!!
I'd never seen you say that before Ella.
Knowing the work/visa thing instantly makes her 50% less annoying.
pour beer all over me and punch me in the face? cool
a major attraction of Zonino III...
i'm going to sleep
you want him to hate me? i hate being hated!!!! it makes me the saddest kitten in the world. is that what you want????
I mean, no one takes his internet barking to heart, surely? He's a pussycat in real life.
but then again, i take everything to heart.
oh and a big thankyou to whoever it was who's been writing about Deer Tick on here (probs lots of you) as i LOVE THEM and that's rare for ella to find a new band she adores.
anyhow, yes i take it all to heart and never forget cruel words said ever ever ever ever ever ever ever. it's a pretty sucky problem.
these old shoes is my fav song ever now!
Cos there's a lot of crap said that isn't really meant and a lot of lattitude to take things entirely the wrong way.
is a big bag of sad for me, so it don't really matter
that's so emo and so untrue :)