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does it usually take for someone to say they love the other?
These three words scare me.
otherwise it can cause a lot of trouble...
best if you're confident it's mutual!
if i ever hear the response "er... thanks?" you will be able to find me under a rock somewhere...
I'm crap at relationships.
it is imperative you imprison them emotionally before they realise what a terrible person you really are.
Just wondering really. I've never been in a relationship where it's ever got close to this stage. It's nice, I've got a fuck load to lose if it goes tits up.
when you meet someone and start a relationship you love them straight away?
people always sleepily drunkenly post-coitally mumur "i love you" before falling into deep sleep
when you mean it. obvs. there is no time limit on it...
How far into a relationship do you ask for bum sex?
any later and intimacy might be established which will ruin the sex forever
Maybe. When you feel like it, but only if you mean it.
I suppose in a relationship context it's a bit more like the love love in the romantic sense, rather than platonic love, whatever that is.
I've only said those words to one person, I think that was only 2 or 3 weeks into the relationship strangely enough, but we were together for another 4+ years.
Having someone say those words to you, and not being able to respond the same way back is a bit eeerrgghh.
'I love being with her/him'
'I love it when we're together'
and then you'll start saying it to them those are the signs that 'I love YOU' is not far off
i told my gf that i was in love with her before we even started "going out"
It took about 6 months.