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Enduce an odd combination of enjoyment and depression.
i do this all the time when i'm drunk. (except i may not fit the bill of "attractive" to some, maybe!)
so that i'm not accused of calling myself attractive! some people on DIS just love to jump at anything they can!
so you're saying you don't have any of the self doubt and revulsion that most decent people have?
Flirty AND Smug
i'm got a lot of self-doubt :)
if you can't be confident with yourself then you are failing yourself, true, though being arrogant and smug isn't always a polite way to engage with other people. but if you aren't self secure then you will just worry about things, and that's pointless and brings you down and actually makes people like you less.
is fuelled by self-doubt anyway.
is completely hidden :) so it's an ok kind.
in my last relationship, but without realising it at all!
well, maybe not 'over familiar', but allegedly flirty.
and i really don't like it when ladies do it. so i must really suck.
you really, really do
being with them, the former, when they leave, the latter
I've been through this exact thing at work.
she was hugging me and kissing me on the lips (not in a full on way, obviously) in front of her boyfriend. He didn't seem to mind. I don't think there's any reason why he should mind 'cos she's like it with everyone and I know full well it's not a sign of her wanting to sleep with me (or anyone else she does it to).
But there is something oddly depressing about a very attractive girl kissing you on the lips when she doesn't want to sleep with you. There's obviously something very pleasant about it too. It's an odd combination.
currently have a girl at work who exhibits no signs of interest when i'm around her yet sends the flirtiest texts and emails.
(oh, i dont know if she's in a relationship so it might not be relevant to the thread title. just had to get it off my chest.)
(anyone know how i can get into the kerrang awards next week?)
and say "hi i'm on the guestlist, Phil Alexander".
"PS do you take it up the chuff?"
Two birds, one stone
"P.S. I'm a 'snooker' man and I can tell you I always love to 'pot the brown'."
go out with them, i think being the one getting flirted with and kissed is the better option than being in a reliationship with them.
insane? you decide
Then I slept with her.
I had a deep loathing for her boyfriend.
And she was very very pretty.
Win Win really..
flirting is fun
CROSS THE LINE
if people know it's not going anywhere. I flirt with my friends and we know it's not going anywhere, well most of the time.........
but sometimes there are moments.... and then I get scared....
that you might end up getting off with them?
flirty and over-familiar with everyone, male and female.
but i am neither attractive or in a relationship
neither flirty nor over familiar with anyone, nor am i attractive. I can tick the 'relationship' box though.
maybe, or a pencil.
you are flirty and overfamiliar with me and that's all that counts
you are the exception
people moan about people flirting with them. OH NOES.
...I love people flirting with me. I'm just saying that sometimes, if you're single and you know nothing's gonna happen, it occasionally depresses you later.
it's just an opportunity for some scheming.
They do it because they ARE in a relationship and know that nothing is going to happen. I thought it was fairly common behaviour?
It's entirely common (though prob not to the extent the girl I'm referring to does it) and not odd at all.
It's just the combination of enjoyment and depression that it inspires in you if you're single and have an attractive (but in a relationship) girl kiss you on the lips that I was referring to as "odd" in the sense that it's two simultaneous opposite emotions.
even my best friend of ten years thinks i fancy her
oh god :(
i just think my whole manner is flirty
I always receive a friendly handshake and good conversation - no silliness.
flirting isnt silly though!
good conversation? im pretty suer im always drunk, but thanks :)