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sarkyfox [Edit] [Delete] 133 replies 14:11, 19 June '07

i knew you'd click it.

i was watching a film the other day, in which the mother confessed to her daughter that she had never had an orgasm (for future reference, the film was 'because i said so', it stars mandy moore, diane keaton and piper perabo, and it's awful).

this made me incredibly sad. because... IMAGINE.

how someone could have sex for... forever, and never have one - is just unbelievable. in more ways than one, i mean - a) sex must have been pretty rubbish and b) why wouldn't her partner *want* to do that for her?

just, :(

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  • I've never had one.

    I've always faked it.

    crablin | 19 Jun '07, 14:13 | X
    • 3 parts salt

      5 parts Biactol

      ehwhat @crablin | 19 Jun '07, 14:19 | X
  • why

    wouldn't you just masturbate?

    JacobJones | 19 Jun '07, 14:13 | X
    • why?

      JacobJones @_vikram | 19 Jun '07, 14:21 | X
      • ...

        girls who are comfortable with masturbating is going in the 'my type' list

        JacobJones @_vikram | 19 Jun '07, 14:30 | X
      • i need to sort my own sex life out

        before I start worrying about other people not orgasming.

        Or maybe that is where I'm going wrong...

        harru | 19 Jun '07, 14:14 | X
        • ^^ this

          o wait shit u might be right lol

          Yesiamaduck @harru | 19 Jun '07, 14:15 | X
      • What's an orgasm?

        sadpunk | 19 Jun '07, 14:15 | X
        • ^^^^ actual question

          meths @sadpunk | 19 Jun '07, 14:35 | X
      • finger up the bum

        no harm done.

        harru @_vikram | 19 Jun '07, 14:17 | X
        • some people just find it hard

          sharp_yet_blunt | 19 Jun '07, 14:16 | X
          • That's what she said

            etc etc

            Smitch @sharp_yet_blunt | 20 Jun '07, 02:53 | X
        • my mum didn't have one until she was about 18 or something

          i was 9..

          klaire | 19 Jun '07, 14:17 | X
          • oh jesus no.

            crablin @klaire | 19 Jun '07, 14:18 | X
            • Oh dear

              unfortunate juxtaposition

              voiceofthepeople @crablin | 19 Jun '07, 14:19 | X
              • :S

                sarkyfox @klaire | 19 Jun '07, 14:25 | X
                • sorry

                  that wasn't me

                  klaire @sarkyfox | 19 Jun '07, 14:28 | X
              • it's a generational thing

                the clitoris and the g-spot were only discovered in 1983

                Anschul | 19 Jun '07, 14:18 | X
                • I dunno

                  I wasn't there at the time

                  Anschul @Jack_El_Biscuit | 19 Jun '07, 14:20 | X
                • This thread

                  Is disgusting. What ever happened to good old-fashioned repressed desire? You cunts.

                  Royter-Hatfood | 19 Jun '07, 14:25 | X
                • I didn't have an orgasm

                  thru sex with a guy for years, they were always DIY, some women just can't get there.

                  That's another wonderful thing about getting older for me :)

                  smilingcrazylady | 19 Jun '07, 14:29 | X
                  • You can afford to buy a vibrator?

                    TheoGB @smilingcrazylady | 19 Jun '07, 14:30 | X
                    • She has no sympathy from me

                      She had plenty of time to become aware of her own body and pleasures when she was young and then, later, to be assertive and ensure that her partner was able to please her. Her timidity and lack of interest in her own body are the problem.

                      Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:30 | X
                      • I'd suggest therapy is NOT

                        the career for you.

                        voiceofthepeople @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:31 | X
                        • Wrong

                          I am talking sense. Wishy-washy "therapy" along the lines of everything is Ok is bollocks. Some people just need a (virtual) slap.

                          Mr_JDTraynor @voiceofthepeople | 19 Jun '07, 14:33 | X
                          • It will help a lot more than saying

                            "I understand your problem; it was how you were brought up; you are stuck being timid all your life"

                            Mr_JDTraynor @_vikram | 19 Jun '07, 14:38 | X
                            • Neither approach

                              would be worth a damn. 'Wake up call' style interventions have wasted an assload of public money and rarely have any lasting effect. 'Wishy-washy' counselling is the property of Humanist therapists and, thankfully, is nearly dead and buried.

                              jonny_rat @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:49 | X
                            • was the film based on your first marriage?

                              you seem quite bitter about it

                              takes too to merengue after all!

                              Anschul @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:32 | X
                              • *two

                                even

                                Anschul @Anschul | 19 Jun '07, 14:32 | X
                            • you know it's a film?

                              bones_howe @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:32 | X
                            • Some people

                              are brought up being told that sex is dirty, this makes people tense about doing it and therefore unlikely to come.

                              smilingcrazylady @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:33 | X
                              • Yes, blame the parents

                                Mr_JDTraynor @smilingcrazylady | 19 Jun '07, 14:34 | X
                                • i blame TV

                                  in fact i blame parents on Tv talking about sex.

                                  j'accuse BBC three, or whatever channel that programme is on.

                                  bones_howe @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:36 | X
                                  • but??

                                    you're a pompey lass!

                                    Anschul @smilingcrazylady | 19 Jun '07, 14:34 | X
                                    • do you wanna start something.

                                      you don't pick on any pompey folk on my watch.

                                      crablin @Anschul | 19 Jun '07, 14:35 | X
                                      • oh colin

                                        it's not your watch anymore

                                        besides - I was only making the point that I didn't think the fair maidens of Portsmouth were brought up with the idea that sex is dirty

                                        Anschul @crablin | 19 Jun '07, 14:38 | X
                                        • Oh I wasn't

                                          I started aged about 7, obviously not connecting it with sex really, I think I just got to used to doing it my own way.

                                          smilingcrazylady @Anschul | 19 Jun '07, 14:49 | X
                                          • what do you mean

                                            what?!

                                            Girls can have orgasms really early, I think I discovered by accident, it was like a brilliant knock me out drug if I couldn't sleep.

                                            smilingcrazylady @_vikram | 19 Jun '07, 15:00 | X
                                            • Love your honesty, SCL. Likewise - identical scenario for me.

                                              ....

                                              Rose-Kitten @smilingcrazylady | 19 Jun '07, 20:26 | X
                                          • wanking

                                            alcxxk @smilingcrazylady | 19 Jun '07, 15:00 | X
                                  • if by 'etc'

                                    you mean 'never having met me' then you'd be right.

                                    voiceofthepeople @_vikram | 19 Jun '07, 14:36 | X
                                  • You're searching for spurious causes for timidity

                                    I don't have an interest in such "causes". The timidity needs to be crushed.

                                    Mr_JDTraynor @_vikram | 19 Jun '07, 14:36 | X
                                    • ^

                                      yeah, just bang it out of her.

                                      sheesh!!!

                                      bones_howe @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:38 | X
                                      • Preferably by donkeypunch

                                        voiceofthepeople @bones_howe | 19 Jun '07, 14:39 | X
                                    • Quote of the week:

                                      "Timidity needs to be crushed"

                                      priceless

                                      Anschul @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:39 | X
                                    • 'The timidity needs to be crushed'

                                      is, frankly, genius.

                                      voiceofthepeople @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:39 | X
                                    • Get Confident, Stupid!

                                      chuff @Mr_JDTraynor | 19 Jun '07, 14:46 | X
                                      • ...

                                        http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/movie_pix/new_line_cinema/magnolia/tom_cruise/mag.jpg

                                        joeymahone @chuff | 19 Jun '07, 14:48 | X
                                  • better than sex?

                                    meths | 19 Jun '07, 14:35 | X
                                    • what, the film?

                                      sarkyfox @meths | 19 Jun '07, 14:38 | X
                                      • ladies

                                        who say they have had an orgasm during sex with a man is a bonafide liar. Unless they used their hand at the same time or owt.

                                        marilyninthesky @sarkyfox | 19 Jun '07, 14:43 | X
                                        • oh my

                                          that's not right

                                          Anschul @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:45 | X
                                        • poor you.

                                          guntrip @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:45 | X
                                          • Haha

                                            A girl says something and 3 blokes question its validity.

                                            In my experience it's rare but does happen, for what its worth.

                                            voiceofthepeople @guntrip | 19 Jun '07, 14:47 | X
                                            • it was a highly questionable statement

                                              Anschul @voiceofthepeople | 19 Jun '07, 14:51 | X
                                              • was it?

                                                it fits with my understanding but then maybe i'm just terrible...

                                                JacobJones @Anschul | 19 Jun '07, 17:18 | X
                                        • i would have agreed with you

                                          until relatively recently.

                                          sarkyfox @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:46 | X
                                          • what did i do?

                                            meths @sarkyfox | 19 Jun '07, 15:13 | X
                                          • :(

                                            that's rubbish for you.

                                            It also make me question a number of statements made about me over the years.

                                            bones_howe @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:47 | X
                                            • bones

                                              don't worry, I bet you('re) just swell in bed :)

                                              marilyninthesky @bones_howe | 19 Jun '07, 15:10 | X
                                          • bf

                                            hehehe

                                            that's what you get for sleeping with losers

                                            grockle @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:48 | X
                                            • Voice of sensitivity, right there

                                              joeymahone @grockle | 19 Jun '07, 14:49 | X
                                              • bf

                                                I'm ashamed

                                                grockle @joeymahone | 19 Jun '07, 14:51 | X
                                                • I thought you had a point

                                                  olegrich @grockle | 19 Jun '07, 14:54 | X
                                                  • HE LADY

                                                    She's like an upper class superhero, with muscles and a posh frock.

                                                    bamos @_vikram | 19 Jun '07, 15:06 | X
                                                    • Married to He Man?

                                                      By the power of greyskull

                                                      Gringo @bamos | 19 Jun '07, 15:09 | X
                                                  • :s

                                                    alcxxk @grockle | 19 Jun '07, 15:00 | X
                                                    • Yeah yeah

                                                      Whatever, Mrs glass-half-full.

                                                      voiceofthepeople @sexyindiegalnotalent | 19 Jun '07, 14:50 | X
                                                    • what film was it?

                                                      Pleasentville?

                                                      tre_cools_sticks @sexyindiegalnotalent | 19 Jun '07, 14:51 | X
                                                      • um

                                                        reply in the right place?

                                                        guntrip @tre_cools_sticks | 19 Jun '07, 14:54 | X
                                                        • why do it?

                                                          tre_cools_sticks @guntrip | 19 Jun '07, 14:56 | X
                                                    • Nope

                                                      all ladies are different, the only way I can come is through sex, though I'm still learning..

                                                      smilingcrazylady @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:51 | X
                                                      • oh dear

                                                        poor you :(

                                                        nice_squirrel @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:53 | X
                                                        • this thread

                                                          has made me pretty confused about sex.

                                                          hmm.

                                                          JacobJones @nice_squirrel | 19 Jun '07, 17:10 | X
                                                      • Some women can't achieve orgasms

                                                        be it for physical or psychological reasons. There was a show a couple of years back on women who just couldn't. They went to this clinic in America where they were surgically inserted with this electronic device. It didn't give all of them orgasms, it made some of them cry because of the pain.

                                                        kurtrussell | 19 Jun '07, 14:52 | X
                                                        • as long as the man's satisfied and all that jazz

                                                          that's the (psychological) problem.

                                                          marilyninthesky @kurtrussell | 19 Jun '07, 14:54 | X
                                                          • then don't let him get his until you've got yours

                                                            Anschul @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:55 | X
                                                            • who's 'him'?

                                                              I can't recall even having sex this year.

                                                              marilyninthesky @Anschul | 19 Jun '07, 14:56 | X
                                                              • that's not healthy

                                                                I mean, orgasms are pretty necessary for maintaining good healthy brain and body chemistry

                                                                thank the Lord for Mrs Hand and her five lovely daughters

                                                                Anschul @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 15:00 | X
                                                                • yes

                                                                  How I love mrs hand.

                                                                  marilyninthesky @Anschul | 19 Jun '07, 15:08 | X
                                                          • yeah but then

                                                            he'll go to sleep and you can watch grand designs or ugly betty or something.

                                                            I'm joking here, obviously.

                                                            or am I?

                                                            no, i am.

                                                            bones_howe @marilyninthesky | 19 Jun '07, 14:56 | X
                                                        • yeah, good point.

                                                          guntrip | 19 Jun '07, 15:02 | X
                                                          • >:(

                                                            sarkyfox @guntrip | 19 Jun '07, 15:10 | X
                                                            • lulz

                                                              http://drownedinsound.com/articles/2105329#r2105605

                                                              guntrip @sarkyfox | 19 Jun '07, 15:11 | X
                                                              • heh?

                                                                sarkyfox @guntrip | 19 Jun '07, 15:12 | X
                                                                • wut?

                                                                  tre_cools_sticks @sarkyfox | 19 Jun '07, 15:14 | X
                                                                  • -=sigh=-

                                                                    guntrip @tre_cools_sticks | 19 Jun '07, 15:15 | X
                                                                    • roffle.

                                                                      joeymahone @guntrip | 19 Jun '07, 15:17 | X
                                                        • I got caught reading this at work

                                                          I tried to minimise but it did that thing where it goes painfullyslowly one line at a time, whats the embarrassed face emoticon

                                                          ThingsThatFly | 19 Jun '07, 16:45 | X
                                                          • ...

                                                            I have succeeded in making every girl I've ever slept with come. Girls just say 'ow', don't they? Is that right?

                                                            grinner @janfurnace | 19 Jun '07, 17:14 | X
                                                          • Yeah.

                                                            It's possible that nothing was done 'wrong' - some people just really struggle, both male and female. Have you seen Pulp's "Do You Remember The First Time" film? Featuring one poor guy's tale of years of orgasm-free sex woe.

                                                            John_Brainlove | 19 Jun '07, 17:34 | X
                                                            • first time round i read that as

                                                              'orgasm, free sex woo'.

                                                              Not entirely the same.

                                                              underpangs @John_Brainlove | 19 Jun '07, 19:26 | X
                                                              • Orgasm! Free Sex Liek Whoah!

                                                                John_Brainlove @underpangs | 20 Jun '07, 03:29 | X
                                                          • orgasm orgasm orgasm

                                                            dove_from_above | 19 Jun '07, 17:45 | X
                                                            • was that live and comin at us?

                                                              sarkyfox @dove_from_above | 19 Jun '07, 17:46 | X
                                                              • Play your cards right

                                                                and you may yet get to see my sex face

                                                                dove_from_above @sarkyfox | 19 Jun '07, 17:46 | X
                                                                • is it the same as your stink face?

                                                                  keiths_tele @dove_from_above | 19 Jun '07, 19:27 | X
                                                          • I really think it depends on chemistry between two people.

                                                            If it's there, it's there. If it isn't, then honestly, keep looking.

                                                            Rose-Kitten | 19 Jun '07, 21:56 | X
                                                          • i've never given a girl an orgasm

                                                            but thats what i get for fucking seven year olds

                                                            Jordan_229_2 | 19 Jun '07, 22:05 | X
                                                            • ...

                                                              http://www.drownedinsound.com/articles/2105329#r2105580

                                                              pretty_vacant @Jordan_229_2 | 20 Jun '07, 03:12 | X
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