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i knew you'd click it.
i was watching a film the other day, in which the mother confessed to her daughter that she had never had an orgasm (for future reference, the film was 'because i said so', it stars mandy moore, diane keaton and piper perabo, and it's awful).
this made me incredibly sad. because... IMAGINE.
how someone could have sex for... forever, and never have one - is just unbelievable. in more ways than one, i mean - a) sex must have been pretty rubbish and b) why wouldn't her partner *want* to do that for her?
just, :(
I've never had one.
I've always faked it.
3 parts salt
5 parts Biactol
why
wouldn't you just masturbate?
why?
...
girls who are comfortable with masturbating is going in the 'my type' list
i need to sort my own sex life out
before I start worrying about other people not orgasming.
Or maybe that is where I'm going wrong...
^^ this
o wait shit u might be right lol
What's an orgasm?
^^^^ actual question
finger up the bum
no harm done.
some people just find it hard
That's what she said
etc etc
my mum didn't have one until she was about 18 or something
i was 9..
oh jesus no.
Oh dear
unfortunate juxtaposition
:S
sorry
that wasn't me
it's a generational thing
the clitoris and the g-spot were only discovered in 1983
I dunno
I wasn't there at the time
This thread
Is disgusting. What ever happened to good old-fashioned repressed desire? You cunts.
I didn't have an orgasm
thru sex with a guy for years, they were always DIY, some women just can't get there.
That's another wonderful thing about getting older for me :)
You can afford to buy a vibrator?
She has no sympathy from me
She had plenty of time to become aware of her own body and pleasures when she was young and then, later, to be assertive and ensure that her partner was able to please her. Her timidity and lack of interest in her own body are the problem.
I'd suggest therapy is NOT
the career for you.
Wrong
I am talking sense. Wishy-washy "therapy" along the lines of everything is Ok is bollocks. Some people just need a (virtual) slap.
It will help a lot more than saying
"I understand your problem; it was how you were brought up; you are stuck being timid all your life"
Neither approach
would be worth a damn. 'Wake up call' style interventions have wasted an assload of public money and rarely have any lasting effect. 'Wishy-washy' counselling is the property of Humanist therapists and, thankfully, is nearly dead and buried.
was the film based on your first marriage?
you seem quite bitter about it
takes too to merengue after all!
*two
even
you know it's a film?
Some people
are brought up being told that sex is dirty, this makes people tense about doing it and therefore unlikely to come.
Yes, blame the parents
i blame TV
in fact i blame parents on Tv talking about sex.
j'accuse BBC three, or whatever channel that programme is on.
but??
you're a pompey lass!
do you wanna start something.
you don't pick on any pompey folk on my watch.
oh colin
it's not your watch anymore
besides - I was only making the point that I didn't think the fair maidens of Portsmouth were brought up with the idea that sex is dirty
Oh I wasn't
I started aged about 7, obviously not connecting it with sex really, I think I just got to used to doing it my own way.
what do you mean
what?!
Girls can have orgasms really early, I think I discovered by accident, it was like a brilliant knock me out drug if I couldn't sleep.
Love your honesty, SCL. Likewise - identical scenario for me.
....
wanking
if by 'etc'
you mean 'never having met me' then you'd be right.
You're searching for spurious causes for timidity
I don't have an interest in such "causes". The timidity needs to be crushed.
^
yeah, just bang it out of her.
sheesh!!!
Preferably by donkeypunch
Quote of the week:
"Timidity needs to be crushed"
priceless
'The timidity needs to be crushed'
is, frankly, genius.
Get Confident, Stupid!
...
http://us.movies1.yimg.com/movies.yahoo.com/images/hv/photo/movie_pix/new_line_cinema/magnolia/tom_cruise/mag.jpg
better than sex?
what, the film?
ladies
who say they have had an orgasm during sex with a man is a bonafide liar. Unless they used their hand at the same time or owt.
oh my
that's not right
poor you.
Haha
A girl says something and 3 blokes question its validity.
In my experience it's rare but does happen, for what its worth.
it was a highly questionable statement
was it?
it fits with my understanding but then maybe i'm just terrible...
i would have agreed with you
until relatively recently.
what did i do?
:(
that's rubbish for you.
It also make me question a number of statements made about me over the years.
bones
don't worry, I bet you('re) just swell in bed :)
bf
hehehe
that's what you get for sleeping with losers
Voice of sensitivity, right there
bf
I'm ashamed
I thought you had a point
HE LADY
She's like an upper class superhero, with muscles and a posh frock.
Married to He Man?
By the power of greyskull
:s
Yeah yeah
Whatever, Mrs glass-half-full.
what film was it?
Pleasentville?
um
reply in the right place?
why do it?
Nope
all ladies are different, the only way I can come is through sex, though I'm still learning..
oh dear
poor you :(
this thread
has made me pretty confused about sex.
hmm.
Some women can't achieve orgasms
be it for physical or psychological reasons. There was a show a couple of years back on women who just couldn't. They went to this clinic in America where they were surgically inserted with this electronic device. It didn't give all of them orgasms, it made some of them cry because of the pain.
as long as the man's satisfied and all that jazz
that's the (psychological) problem.
then don't let him get his until you've got yours
who's 'him'?
I can't recall even having sex this year.
that's not healthy
I mean, orgasms are pretty necessary for maintaining good healthy brain and body chemistry
thank the Lord for Mrs Hand and her five lovely daughters
yes
How I love mrs hand.
yeah but then
he'll go to sleep and you can watch grand designs or ugly betty or something.
I'm joking here, obviously.
or am I?
no, i am.
yeah, good point.
>:(
lulz
http://drownedinsound.com/articles/2105329#r2105605
heh?
wut?
-=sigh=-
roffle.
I got caught reading this at work
I tried to minimise but it did that thing where it goes painfullyslowly one line at a time, whats the embarrassed face emoticon
...
I have succeeded in making every girl I've ever slept with come. Girls just say 'ow', don't they? Is that right?
Yeah.
It's possible that nothing was done 'wrong' - some people just really struggle, both male and female. Have you seen Pulp's "Do You Remember The First Time" film? Featuring one poor guy's tale of years of orgasm-free sex woe.
first time round i read that as
'orgasm, free sex woo'.
Not entirely the same.
Orgasm! Free Sex Liek Whoah!
orgasm orgasm orgasm
was that live and comin at us?
Play your cards right
and you may yet get to see my sex face
is it the same as your stink face?
I really think it depends on chemistry between two people.
If it's there, it's there. If it isn't, then honestly, keep looking.
i've never given a girl an orgasm
but thats what i get for fucking seven year olds
...
http://www.drownedinsound.com/articles/2105329#r2105580