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disliking someone then realising you really fancy them.
which is worse?
neither is really important.
instead of getting all upset about it.
but if you're using that as a rule you could say that for EVERYTHING
because most things arnt as trivial as who you "fancy"
because the second one(disliking then realising there's something there) is very Jane Austen 'Pride and Prejudice'... <3
except it sucks when you go from being 'aww! ..insert name here... is so awesome! etc' to 'so....he's another dick : ( '
if you only get to that stage after you start going out with them....
being on the receiving end of the first one.
I wish I was charismatic and dashing enough to pull off the second.
Yeah, like House.
House = my idol
i think its shit to be fancied but not liked.
and by liked i mean liked as a friend not the other qwya
second the best
gorilla features :P
Is that you know it to be true :(
and happens all too often.
it really sucks.
the second is a nice thing.
it's crap when you dislike someone as a person but you cant help being physically attracted to them
in the long term it's somone you like, which is better than someone you hate.
or i've misunderstood your answer.
when i say 'fancying someone then realising you dont actually LIKE them, i mean deciding you dislike them not that your feelings aren't THAT strong.
I have a habit of falling in lust with someone, getting together and realising I don't really like them. Though everyone tells me I'm too picky
it's not my fault i just can't feel that 'thing' with many guys.
it's just that all the wrong, perfectly lovely, but wrong, guys like me : (
I think being picky is a good thing. I'm not gonna settle for anyone I don't think is 'good enough' for me (that may sound a little big headed but you get what I mean)
but people have liked me who have been attractive, funny, kind etc etc everything i want seemingly but i just cant like them like that!
and i never talk to guys i do fancy. so basically im doomed.
sometimes people can tick all the boxes but if there's no spark then it's not gonna work.
And you should talk to the guys you fancy, most men have a huge fear of rejection and would rather let an oppertuinity pass than face the small possibility that they might be embarrassed (has anyone ever been rejected that badly?)
"sometimes people can tick all the boxes but if there's no spark then it's not gonna work."
That's what my ex said. However she decided to say it about 3 weeks after telling me she wanted to marry me.
Obviously this was in no way confusing or hurtful.
usually when people let their guard down, relax and be themselves. I found people can often act differently at the start of a relationship to the way the normally would (I'm not accusing you of doing this, I don't know your situation)
and in retrospect the whole thing was a disaster and...
and I just remembered about why I promised myself I wouldn't tell the internet about my woes.
but it's not just the rejection, it's actually going up to them and putting myself out there. im shy : (
and as i said its the ACTUAL going up to them. i really fancy someone at the moment but i dont know how to approach him. (he's a rl person) lol
and if they do, so what?
You'll forget about it in a matter of mins and so will he.
And the best way to approach that guy is go up to him and say "Hi, I'm Sophia"
it will be SO obvious that i want his babies.
also he looks really 'cool'
Wanting his babies is a bit much.....
Then you talk to him the way you would a normal person, cause thats what he is, you probably just have him on a pedistal in your mind
what i mean is 'i fancy him'
yeah i guess so. i just need an excuse to strike up conversation with him now.
im crap at being a bitch
leave me alone :'(((((
that was really quite immature though, no?
i only do immature insults because i dont mean them.
It's how I feel. It just seems like there's things we could be concerning ourselves with that are a lot less pressing than 'fancying' people.
I mean, you're a pretty girl. If you like someone, talk to them, have some fun, whatever.
If you don't, then don't waste time thinking about them.
I think everyone gets hung up on stuff way too easily. Let's just all have fun.
but this interests me. if it doesnt interest you fine. go in another thread!
im not 'hung up' on anything.
leave me alone
you got personal. not me.
everyone knows about me and beards. and anyone who knows me knows i never say anything with malicious intent.
And similarly, you don't know me. So don't overreact and go crazy!
im not crazy at all i was just sticking up for myself. im fed up of digs from people. it's not fair when i dont do it to others.
*tears of death*
The first one gives a sense of dissapointment the 2nd one gives u the exact opposite of that + if u made a move by then u got the whole shit what do i do now situation!
i find that really annoying.
it distracts me from my work
because of this! >:(
I dunno. What's bad about them?