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Being friends with your exes ex.
Good idea?
My exes' (the bad one) ex found me on the internet and we have since become friends, bonding over what an arsehole he was and how he ripped us both off financially etc...
A kinda complex and interesting way to form a friendship but is it a good idea?
*can't make clear decisions today... finding it difficult.
I don't know!
Neither do I!!
It might not last for ever
But sure. Why not make somet out of nowt?
Of course it's OK
"a friend of my enemy is my friend."
It's like in the Bible or something.
I got that wrong
"the enemy of my enemy is my friend."
Maybe it was the Art of War, I can't remember.
Could be good.
The internet bit sounds a bit dodge, though.
we both used to post on the same message board
and i recently went back online to it.
she recognised me as did someone else.
and now we are myspaz buds and planning to hook up and have drinks etc. she seems cool, actually...
Ok, that seems less weird.
I thought she tracked you down on purpose. Which is, of course, perfectly normal but admitting it is less normal.
bad idea
and shows that neither of you have moved on,tho i bet he'd love the idea of 2 conquests still bitching about him....if he was that sort
trust me, i have moved on from him.
i would like my cash back, tho... that would be really good...
then you both
should come up with a cunning plan to rid the little blighter of all he is worth,and if you can humiliate him in the process...more power to you sister.
He really is a nasty piece of work
Yes. Pity I'm not of the vengeful type...
don't dream...
not the worst idea
though you probably have the same taste in men, best not to go out together
ha ha ha...
that's an amusing thought, actually! out on 'the pull' with my exes ex.
there's something terribly amusing / tempting in a perverse way about the concept of that.
you'll end up with each others different exes
It'll be like a bad movie
why not ?
Till you don't sleep together...
Oh wait... why not ?
Que?
?
How about
you judge them for who they are rather than how you know them.
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I think it might be a little bit odd
My exes ex sent me a massive email on myspace when we split up, which initially I thought was quite sweet of her, but then she sent another epic message dissecting his personality and telling me the in's and out's of why their relationship went wrong and how she felt about it and I realised that she just hadn't really got over it. I guess it's quite sad really but I had no intention of dwelling on anything, I'd rather be pragmatic about it and think about myself.
it happened
to me despite being a teenager and inexperienced, but we had a good friendship for a year until i realised how i'd been manipulated by her, and it seemed to carry on the pangs that i felt for my ex. basically i think its best just to get rid of anything to do with your ex, including a seemingly harmless person.