so i'm sitting next to a girl at work who's been banging on all morning about her boyf spending time with some other girl who he insists is just his friend.
apparently he went home with othergirl the other night or she came back to his house or something just to hang out and do whatever boys and girls who are 'just friends' do. workgirl threw some jealousy fit and they fell out. now she's moaning cos boyf is going to see othergirl's band tonight.
the point is this: workgirl doesn't believe anything's actually happening between boyf and othergirl but thinks he should nonetheless respect her jealousy and behave accordingly.
but if she believes him then surely her jealousy is her problem, he shouldn't not see his friend because of it? right? or am i missing something?
(I'm only making this thread because I haven't actually said this to my workcolleague, mostly because I don't want to lose an entire day arguing about it with her.)