which of the following consenting, sexual acts are legal, and which are illegal, between an 18 year old male and 17 year old female?
(and yeah, i know its basically just theoretical legally, but anyway)

1) male and female have full sex
2) female watches pornography
3) male gives female pornography
4) male films sex with female
5) female films sex with male
6) female films self naked
7) male watches film of female masturbating
8) male watches female naked on webcam (unrecorded)
9) male watches female naked through window
10) male and female have sex whilst a camera links to tv that they can both see
11) male and female watch another couple of the same ages have sex
12) male and female have sex whilst couple of the same ages watch

and would it matter if the sexes were reversed?

ps: yes. im a paedophile