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i bet its me!
get over it, dude!
seriously. Yet I still ring her when I am drunk. I am an idiot.
i only speak to mine every 6 month or so, and every time she mskes me so angry!
and she thinks she is WELL cool. Its really pathetic. Yet, I suppose I am equally as pathetic for pining after her!
I am destined to live a life outside the circle of cool kids doing coke in their living rooms. I think I can cope.
p.s, they soud gay!
pps, Even though she is annoying, she has nothing on her mates. God I HATE her mates.
find someone else!
she is just my drunken safety net, if you know what I mean.
claim of that title.
because 'winning' would invalidate the result.
*head also explodes*
you'd "win" by being a bigger loser.
you'd "lose" by being less of a loser.
is a polite way of calling us both losers, so.. yes.
12 of them infact, and thought of you!
wow! I am impressed. I demand you come to London soon for some more!
to make it my next aim, 15!
This could get very messy.
and could have easily managed more.
i dont know why we went home though...
they are a killer because the red bull keeps you buzzing. Then you fall flat on your face. Then you can't sleep because of all the caffeine.
When are you coming to london?
I was bouncing off the wall till 6am and by 7.30am i wanted to die... slowly.
April time I hope, eeee.
problem solved. Unless you've memorised it?
I'm quite annoying. So I vote the former Mrs Bamos as the answer to this. She has the most annoying ex.
Not the most recent one.
An ex from just over a year ago.
I don't think I have had an "annoying" ex as such. If I've done the dumping, it's really not fair to call their hurt 'annoying'. And if you've been dumped yourself... well, that's a different matter. But anyone who calls the person they have dumped 'annoying' for being hurt and fucked up is very callous if you ask me.
And if you are in any way a good person, or care about them and their wellbeing, you'll give them whatever they need from you to help them through it.
If you aren't the kind of person who realises this: they are way better off without you, and they'll figure that out pretty quickly.
i'm inclined to
I think anything past a few months starts to wear a little... unless you were together for years or married, in which case you kind of joined to that person to a greater extent.
lets get over it please!
I'll stop hanging around outside your house now.
We are people... we dont come with 'manuals' on how to deal with this.
But yeah, moral obligations if you are the dumpee. Lord knows my ex didn't know what the hell that was.
i can't forget how many times i've heard "but even now, you're still angry" because, y'know, after a random amount of time i will feel better about how i was treated. lol!
Hmm. That should really have been gotten over by now. I think in the months after a breakup, the dumper has some responsibility to the 'dumpee'. This dissipates over time obviously as the bonds between you dissolve and people move on and meet new people etc. I have learned from being a bad 'dumper' that if you don't play it sensitively, you can emotionally damage the 'dumpee' whether you mean to or not.
I think there is a minimum level of ex-responsibility that comes fairly naturally to most people with any sense of empathy or social grace.
this is why I don't speak to my exes.
semi-regular contact with is quite annoying.
but she was annoying when we went out, so i don't know if she counts.
although she has developed more annoying habits since we broke up. so maybe she does.
after she got arrested. ExinapolicecarLOL.
because you have to stand there and take it. My ex gave me a fucking hiding I'll never forget once. She punched me in the eye and yanked on my hair. She then kicked me for about 15 minutes.
I miss her.
you should have smacked the bitch right back.
you can't hit a woman, no matter how much she is trying to kill you.
You should be able to defend yourself, surely?
I'm not saying beat her up or anything here, but just like, stop her from hurting you.
sort of curling up and shouting, 'WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!' over and over again.
If I had defended my self simply by restraining her, I wouldn't have liked the repurcussions.
but they dont stand there and take it, they pick me up instead :(
has to be said, if a woman was seriously going at you, it WOULD be fair to smack her one.
If they expect to play the 'its not gentlemanly' card, you could justifiabley claim they are not behaving like a lady, therefore don't deserve to be treated like one
That's what I did. Also deleted her from MSN etc. I kinda regret this now, though. Getting sex is a LOT harder when you don't have an ex to drunkenly phone
I'm half joking, of course
up was one of the worst things I ever did.
But still, y'know. Needs must and all that
She was shit though.
about being a loser who can only pull girls through the internet - they invariably live miles away, and you never have to see them again. YEAH.
-> <- funny.
just very angsty. likes to make a big deal out of any situation where all the friends are together. silly boy.
You'd have thought he'd have got the idea by now :-p
I'm great after I've got used to the idea though.
He stalked me and burned my name into his chest.
I'm not even joking.
you own him now?
He planned to kill me after selling me as a prostitute, so, you know, I care not.
so i win