last night i saw my friend, who is moving to morocco to marry her fiance. And we got into'a talking about our other friend who is also married. (ARGH WE'RE 23 WTF anyway) - and she was telling me about how my friend wanted kids, but her husband doesn't, but 'she says it's ok, because, you know, obviously he'll change his mind'......... what? will he? how likely is this to happen?
of the people on here that have kids (and there aren't that many) - were you originally of this opinion? that you didn't want kids, but then got married, and miraculously changed your mind?
of those that don't - do you want kids? and if not, how likely is it that YOU would change your mind? Or, is it just something that you won't know until the situation possibly arises? if you or your partner got pregnant now, what would you do? keep it or abort it?