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girl mates or boymates?

mouldycherryx [Edit] [Delete] 63 replies 17:12, 7 January '07

I can't decide. Can you?

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  • i'll wut you wut.

    mouldycherryx @Pigfoot | 7 Jan '07, 17:15 | X
  • you're a cunt

    klaire | 7 Jan '07, 17:15 | X
  • girls are rubbish

    ThingsThatFly | 7 Jan '07, 17:15 | X
  • Don't be so teen

    they are called men and women, and you are allowed to have friends of both.

    Mr_JDTraynor | 7 Jan '07, 17:15 | X
    • she is a teenager

      JUST BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS

      klaire @Mr_JDTraynor | 7 Jan '07, 17:16 | X
      • She is nearly twenty

        Mr_JDTraynor @klaire | 7 Jan '07, 17:17 | X
        • GOODNESS ME

          you're nearly dead

          ^^cxxkfact

          klaire @Mr_JDTraynor | 7 Jan '07, 17:18 | X
          • nearly twenty = teenager, right?

            or am i actually the stupidest on the board?
            hmm.

            fishplums @klaire | 7 Jan '07, 17:25 | X
    • can you express a preference?

      i certainly get along with women better than i do with men.

      fishplums @Mr_JDTraynor | 7 Jan '07, 17:16 | X
      • he doesn't have two friends to rub together

        klaire @fishplums | 7 Jan '07, 17:19 | X
  • this is pretty

    shocking stuff.

    bobj | 7 Jan '07, 17:24 | X
  • metrosexual

    yo_soy_welshmun | 7 Jan '07, 17:25 | X
  • me neither

    so im only friends with hermaphrodites

    sharp_yet_blunt | 7 Jan '07, 17:26 | X
  • No need for the prefix, really

    But it isn't *that* often that you can have close boy/girl friendships that don't result in an attraction developing

    I fully expect people to chastise me for saying that. So fuck you in advance

    dove_from_above | 7 Jan '07, 17:30 | X
    • i think that's understandable

      and works with same sex friendships too. spending that much time together and becoming such close friends especially at a young age can occasionally make someone question their sexuality

      klaire @dove_from_above | 7 Jan '07, 17:51 | X
      • Interesting

        Not trying to flex my (limited) testosterone, but can't say I've experienced that. Well, certainly not conciously

        But I think the age think is definitely important. Not so much merely because of the crazy hormone issues, but would it be fair to say that it's much easier to become attracted to somebody when you're younger?

        dove_from_above @klaire | 7 Jan '07, 18:14 | X
        • You look genuinely menacing in your pic

          Good work!

          dove_from_above @Anthonus | 7 Jan '07, 18:25 | X
          • i am exactly the same

            and yes, your picture! you look a bit jack black-esque

            klaire @Anthonus | 7 Jan '07, 18:28 | X
          • possibly it is mainly with girls then?

            because when you are at that age and a probably straight guy you don't discuss things as in-depth, like feelings and stuff, so you don't know eachother on that level?

            and yes, i agree very much so about being easily attracted to people when you're younger. it is all too easy to confuse fondness with something more

            klaire @dove_from_above | 7 Jan '07, 18:24 | X
            • I concur

              Also, when you're younger I guess you have less of an idea as to what you like in a member of the opposite sex. When I was 15 my check list consisted of;

              - Does she have breasts?

              As you get older, and dare I say more experienced, you know more of the kind of people who have fucked you over in the past etc etc

              I was nigh on infatuated with a girl from afar throughout last year. The other day my mate was round mine checking his myspace, and stumbled across her page : (

              Knowing what you really, really like in a person can also be a head fuck

              dove_from_above @klaire | 7 Jan '07, 18:34 | X
          • playmates*

            Ohhhh right.

            Gigedy gigedy gigedy!

            yes_ | 7 Jan '07, 17:30 | X
          • I used to get on better with girls

            I think I get on better with boys at uni though. That's more to do with the girls being daddy's girls and rich.

            lemonbrickcombo | 7 Jan '07, 17:56 | X
          • both

            thanks. bye!

            crablin | 7 Jan '07, 17:58 | X
            • well being as i live with

              56 other guys i do like to hang around with girls from time to time.....although i do like guys time, as it's a different atmosphere with girls around.

              chris_is_cool @crablin | 7 Jan '07, 18:18 | X
              • bunny rape time?

                klaire @chris_is_cool | 7 Jan '07, 18:27 | X
                • That only happens on special occasions

                  noo course not, usually bullying time, all in jest though, more like a circle jerk.

                  chris_is_cool @klaire | 7 Jan '07, 18:28 | X
                • Johnny Borrell

                  rapes him on the live DVD

                  dove_from_above @klaire | 7 Jan '07, 18:29 | X
          • I tend to get on rather better with boys

            but the few girl friends I have I am closer to. Maybe.

            fionapinkstars | 7 Jan '07, 18:17 | X
            • same as me

              only the other way round.

              my friends from school, who i've been friends with longest, are all boys. the best friends i've met since leaving school are almost all girls. weird.

              ImageChange @fionapinkstars | 7 Jan '07, 18:26 | X
          • no.

            doubtful | 7 Jan '07, 18:19 | X
          • ^^potd

            ex_cynic @Anthonus | 8 Jan '07, 22:09 | X
          • Boys

            - They don't take things so seriously
            - There's no bitchyness
            - They aren't so annoying
            - There's not as much pressure to be really good, nice friends.

            I think girls are generally alot harder to get on with. They seem to be alot more wary of me..maybe because i say i prefer boys? Meh

            Saying that, i do like some girls, it's ok!

            junkstaposition | 7 Jan '07, 20:06 | X
            • Most of my friends are boys.

              But I'm closer to my female friends. And sure enough, they are the sort who get on better with guys. I'm very careful when picking female friends. I don't have time for the spoilt ones, who think that just cus they're rich they can act like cunts. That goes for anyone actually.

              IrishMagpie @junkstaposition | 7 Jan '07, 20:14 | X
          • I don't get it.

            Marlvrum | 7 Jan '07, 20:15 | X
            • oh well

              it was a whim

              mouldycherryx @Marlvrum | 7 Jan '07, 20:37 | X
              • A mim?

                dove_from_above @mouldycherryx | 7 Jan '07, 20:49 | X
                • Jeez, Martbowski is SUCH A CUNT

                  Anyway, girl mates are all well and good but I've got two very good girl mates who have both just got married and phoning them up ./ hanging around with them is a bit weird. It's like ttoally not good with hubby even though I've been mates with both of them for 15 years.

                  moker @dove_from_above | 7 Jan '07, 21:40 | X
                  • aw shit

                    possessive people = worrying.

                    if i interpret what you post correctly, you're his mate, why should anything be different now he is married? if anything, it should make him MORE secure in his position.

                    i'm not going to call him names but i really don't think very much at all of possessive behaviour.

                    deadcats @moker | 7 Jan '07, 23:13 | X
          • most of my friends are women

            come to think of it, most of my friends are my ex-girlfriends.

            this does not pwn, to be honest

            deadcats | 7 Jan '07, 23:15 | X
          • I like men

            for laughing and jokes, and girls for deep discussions and dancing.

            _antilovesong | 8 Jan '07, 00:20 | X
          • I have more guy mates

            but all of my closest mates are girls, for the mostpart.

            Dalkin | 8 Jan '07, 00:37 | X
            • closest to your COCK

              klaire @Dalkin | 8 Jan '07, 00:39 | X
              • No

                :)

                Dalkin @klaire | 8 Jan '07, 00:51 | X
          • I prefer

            boy mates.

            I get on well with boys. Girls tend to takew an instant dislike to me and my manly ways. :(

            Ceraaa | 8 Jan '07, 08:50 | X
          • either

            as long as they're cool.

            Women are easier to have proper conversations with but guys like dirty jokes and football, therefore you need both.

            cunt | 8 Jan '07, 09:10 | X
            • Who needs proper conversation

              when you can have wonderfully sleazy talks?

              Ceraaa @cunt | 8 Jan '07, 09:11 | X
              • I can only talk sleeze for so long

                I need to work on that

                cunt @Ceraaa | 8 Jan '07, 09:14 | X
                • You really do.

                  Also; why can't you have proper conversations with blokes?

                  Ceraaa @cunt | 8 Jan '07, 09:14 | X
                  • You can

                    but after a few mins someone makes a rude joke and the tone of the conversation lowers to a point where it can't be rescued. Maybe it's just my mates

                    cunt @Ceraaa | 8 Jan '07, 09:20 | X
                    • Maybe my male friends

                      are women in disguise.

                      They wear dresses often enough.

                      Ceraaa @cunt | 8 Jan '07, 09:23 | X
                      • girls are good for some things

                        boys are good for some things. i seem to go through phases of having more girl mates then more boy mates.... never a mixture of both. i think i find it easier to get on with boys, maybe as i have two brothers, and also cos, i'm not girly at all and can impatient with those that are. and i can be far too sweary. and make jokes about things i shouldn't. yep.

                        sarkyfox | 8 Jan '07, 09:23 | X
                        • can *get* impatient

                          sarkyfox @sarkyfox | 8 Jan '07, 09:24 | X
                          • i like girls

                            but they won't let me touch them.

                            guntrip | 8 Jan '07, 11:53 | X
                            • stop trying to touch them?

                              cunt @guntrip | 8 Jan '07, 11:54 | X
                          • both.

                            most of my friends are boys though, they are more laid back and less moody.

                            pretty_vacant | 8 Jan '07, 22:09 | X
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