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I can't decide. Can you?
they are called men and women, and you are allowed to have friends of both.
JUST BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS
you're nearly dead
or am i actually the stupidest on the board?
i certainly get along with women better than i do with men.
so im only friends with hermaphrodites
But it isn't *that* often that you can have close boy/girl friendships that don't result in an attraction developing
I fully expect people to chastise me for saying that. So fuck you in advance
and works with same sex friendships too. spending that much time together and becoming such close friends especially at a young age can occasionally make someone question their sexuality
Not trying to flex my (limited) testosterone, but can't say I've experienced that. Well, certainly not conciously
But I think the age think is definitely important. Not so much merely because of the crazy hormone issues, but would it be fair to say that it's much easier to become attracted to somebody when you're younger?
and yes, your picture! you look a bit jack black-esque
because when you are at that age and a probably straight guy you don't discuss things as in-depth, like feelings and stuff, so you don't know eachother on that level?
and yes, i agree very much so about being easily attracted to people when you're younger. it is all too easy to confuse fondness with something more
Also, when you're younger I guess you have less of an idea as to what you like in a member of the opposite sex. When I was 15 my check list consisted of;
- Does she have breasts?
As you get older, and dare I say more experienced, you know more of the kind of people who have fucked you over in the past etc etc
I was nigh on infatuated with a girl from afar throughout last year. The other day my mate was round mine checking his myspace, and stumbled across her page : (
Knowing what you really, really like in a person can also be a head fuck
Gigedy gigedy gigedy!
I think I get on better with boys at uni though. That's more to do with the girls being daddy's girls and rich.
56 other guys i do like to hang around with girls from time to time.....although i do like guys time, as it's a different atmosphere with girls around.
noo course not, usually bullying time, all in jest though, more like a circle jerk.
rapes him on the live DVD
but the few girl friends I have I am closer to. Maybe.
only the other way round.
my friends from school, who i've been friends with longest, are all boys. the best friends i've met since leaving school are almost all girls. weird.
- They don't take things so seriously
- There's no bitchyness
- They aren't so annoying
- There's not as much pressure to be really good, nice friends.
I think girls are generally alot harder to get on with. They seem to be alot more wary of me..maybe because i say i prefer boys? Meh
Saying that, i do like some girls, it's ok!
But I'm closer to my female friends. And sure enough, they are the sort who get on better with guys. I'm very careful when picking female friends. I don't have time for the spoilt ones, who think that just cus they're rich they can act like cunts. That goes for anyone actually.
it was a whim
Anyway, girl mates are all well and good but I've got two very good girl mates who have both just got married and phoning them up ./ hanging around with them is a bit weird. It's like ttoally not good with hubby even though I've been mates with both of them for 15 years.
possessive people = worrying.
if i interpret what you post correctly, you're his mate, why should anything be different now he is married? if anything, it should make him MORE secure in his position.
i'm not going to call him names but i really don't think very much at all of possessive behaviour.
come to think of it, most of my friends are my ex-girlfriends.
this does not pwn, to be honest
for laughing and jokes, and girls for deep discussions and dancing.
but all of my closest mates are girls, for the mostpart.
I get on well with boys. Girls tend to takew an instant dislike to me and my manly ways. :(
as long as they're cool.
Women are easier to have proper conversations with but guys like dirty jokes and football, therefore you need both.
when you can have wonderfully sleazy talks?
I need to work on that
Also; why can't you have proper conversations with blokes?
but after a few mins someone makes a rude joke and the tone of the conversation lowers to a point where it can't be rescued. Maybe it's just my mates
are women in disguise.
They wear dresses often enough.
boys are good for some things. i seem to go through phases of having more girl mates then more boy mates.... never a mixture of both. i think i find it easier to get on with boys, maybe as i have two brothers, and also cos, i'm not girly at all and can impatient with those that are. and i can be far too sweary. and make jokes about things i shouldn't. yep.
but they won't let me touch them.
most of my friends are boys though, they are more laid back and less moody.