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am a bit squiffy. he paid of course was good...does this mean i apy next timee ?
bleed him dry.
yes, unless you are planning on 'putting out'.
what's it like?
he'll at least suggest going halfsies.
you're doing on the next one
But then I would have paid half at the start but if he insisted to pay it then you should pay for the next one!
Where did you go?
Is he nice do you want another date??!
actually then on to a uni bar. he is nice, except i've just found out his last relationship isn't exactly over. so i am very annoyed with him....we have so much in common but then this morning he text me and said oh theres a bit of a problem....nothing in life is ever straight forward
This has happened to me a few times - back away but try and stay friends.
Until at least he's sorted out this relationship stuff.
Oh that sucks!
thanks for the advice. thats what i was thinking...and yes it sucks big time. oh well i have only been at uni for 2 weeks so i have plenty of time to meet properly single guys...just seems a shame. :(
and takes you out again then YAY!
If not he isn't worth it and you are better off well-shot!
it's the worst thing that can ever happen.
i was broke at the end of my 2nd year and spent months and months doing a shitty job throughout the summer holidays clearing out my overdraft. then right near the end of the summer, i met this girl and spent 2 and a half weeks practically attached to her. i walked out on the job to be with her. we'd be together for 10 hours at a time and i barely knew her at all.
the constant drinking of alcohol, buying of meals in restaurants and taxi rides home completely wiped out the money i had earned throughout the summer and at the end of it all, she said 'i've not really split up with my last boyfriend'
doesn't seem so cynical now!
and she was NICE too ... oh, what i'd give to be gay
I went out with a guy for 18 months then found out after about a year he was seeing someone else and had been since before we got together!
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!
nah, what doesn't kill you makes you a nervous wreck and a hermit. well, that's my experience.
does anyone remember that advert for Sheffield Univeristy which had that expression on it? hilarious.
Thats ace :)
it sounds like you worked too hard over summer and just started stalking someone
that this situation is a common one in the first term of University
but instead, don't go and spend the money you would've spent on getting trashed at home for five nights in a row. result!
then he technically pays lol
If he's loaded and your skint there's no reason why you should pay
likewise if you're loaded and he's skint you should cut him some slack
go on own up who are you*
*in good humour
the "other" woman.
MAKE HIM PAY
or you could always split 3 ways...
and split him 3 ways.
but would he be unselfish enough to pay?
only you can tell us
that last girl I was dating messed up some of my cds which just screwed up my system and it took me a few hours to get the back in order once I'd calmed down.
too much of a coincidence