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mouldycherryx [Edit] [Delete] 24 replies 18:38, 29 September '06

that I seem to have an inate distrust of men who are very attractive?

Example- today in one of my first drama classes a very fit guy (who my best mate had been admiring in the student bar the other night) For some reason I assume he is an arrogant, shallow prick, I hate that I can be so judgemental of someone without even speaking to them. I obviously intend to actually get to know him before I really have an opinion of him. But why does my mind immediately jump to the conclusion that any man who is undeniably attractive must also be a prat? Is this the influence of my school days when the 'Cool good looking' boys were nasty to me?

I also automatically assume these tyoe of mens taste in women. Is this founded at all? Am I just a cynic?
I thought I was an idealist :(

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* a very fit guy was in it , I mean.

mouldycherryx | 29 Sep '06, 18:39 | X
what was he wearing?

ladyoftheflowers | 29 Sep '06, 18:41 | X
- Well I dont go for these 'very attractive men' either.
  
  But by fit I mean, well, look it up on wikipedia. :)
  
  I have a wierd habit of fancying wierd looking men. And I dont even bother looking at men I think are really hot unless they talk to me because I dont think they would ever go for me.
  
  mouldycherryx @ladyoftheflowers | 29 Sep '06, 18:44 | X
- He had style.
  
  Not a topshop boy. Which is nice.
  
  mouldycherryx @ladyoftheflowers | 29 Sep '06, 18:45 | X
...

It's because we're bastards. Insufferable bastards.

Stealthy | 29 Sep '06, 18:43 | X
- Go for what?
  
  I dont fancy him. I like a fit guy who is a legend at the moment :)
  
  mouldycherryx @nicster | 29 Sep '06, 19:13 | X
- I have
  
  an innate distrust of the male species as a whole.
  
  _antilovesong | 29 Sep '06, 19:06 | X
  - Like this guy?
    
    http://www.string-emil.de/
    
    Mr_JDTraynor | 29 Sep '06, 19:57 | X
    - Like this guy?
      
      http://drownedinsound.com/user/view/28044
      
      Parsefone @Mr_JDTraynor | 29 Sep '06, 20:03 | X
      - Like this guy?
        
        http://www.drownedinsound.com/user/view/22079
        
        pretty_vacant @Parsefone | 29 Sep '06, 20:33 | X
        
        Like this Guy?
        
        http://www.theholidayspot.com/guy_fawkes_day/images/guyfawkes_img.gif
        
        dove_from_above @pretty_vacant | 29 Sep '06, 20:47 | X
        
        Like this guy?
        
        http://perso.orange.fr/guy.carlier/images/carlier1.jpg
        
        yes_ @dove_from_above | 29 Sep '06, 20:53 | X
        
        Yeah that one.
        
        He's fit.
        
        In both ways.
        
        james_delve @yes_ | 29 Sep '06, 21:02 | X
        
        Hehehe!
        
        But if I see a FIT guy, i dont even look, not just cos I think they are obv out of my league, but just cos I think they are gonna be a knob and like perma tanned skinny girls.
        
        mouldycherryx @TheresaG | 30 Sep '06, 02:04 | X
        
        What you have done is given all ugly guys an opportinity to say:
        
        "I am single because I am too attractive and have to suffer the prejudices outlined above"
        
        Mr_JDTraynor @mouldycherryx | 30 Sep '06, 05:07 | X
        
        poor attractive men
        
        so discriminated against
        
        just ignore everything ever and make your mind up as and when the situation requires it
        
        thank you, i'm here all week
        
        84joe | 30 Sep '06, 02:51 | X
        
        this is like the opposite of a Ho Fo thread
        
        i hope the two never meet, it could destroy the universe.
        
        guntrip | 30 Sep '06, 10:31 | X

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