I know exactly what you mean, it's always the blokes I dont like that ask me out, and the ones I do never do :(
Also rejecting someone is as horrid (well for me anyway) as being rejected yourself. I get the stomach ache and feel like a total bitch and i hate to hurt someones feelings.
because I'm not. But it's just ironic sometimes the way things work out.
There is actually someone I really want to ask out and have for some time but I am scared of rejection!!!! Whooo hooo! There you have it!
then no one would ask anyone out!
I was responding to Traynor's comment on my 'lack of embarassment'.
Actually, not sure WHY I should feel embarassed about it? Just trying to generate discussion... get some views.. blah blah.
I haven't asked anyone out in AAAAAAAGES.
The thing is, this guy did ask me out ages ago - to a gig - and I didn't go... as was tied up with friends... so I've kind of blown my chance.. as have casually suggested going out a few times but NO BITE.
Oh well.
:(
What you need to say: "Hey [name], [band] are playing at [venue][time][date]. Meet me there. Buy me [quantity] of [brand of alcohol]. Afterwards we'll go to [house] and I'll [sexual activity]"
I never realised before just how hard life is for people who get asked on dates. It's like walking through fucking razor blade fire glass with the six hundred, isn't it? Or is it more like being beaten to death with a bad AIDS dog? Or is it more like when you're in Pret A Manger and they give you a Salmon Rocket Soy Baguette when you clearly asked for a Chilean Veal Butterscotch Wrap?
Considering the shit that life throws at people, the area of relationships should be one of fun, risk, joy, unexpectedness, surprise, laughter and, occassionally, falling on your arse.
Considering the shit that life throws at people, the area of relationships should be one of fun, risk, joy, unexpectedness, surprise, laughter and, occassionally, falling on your arse.
Considering the life that people throw at shit, the area of falling on your arse should be one of despair, despair, despair, despair and, occasionally, death.
You have been in a relatioship for four years and then, one day, you wake up and decide you'd like to dump your partner, just like that, leaving them in a state of despair, homeless, and completely wrecked.
At least you got asked.
amen brother
date me?
oh
i see
clever
we could have had a pretend date at Secret Garden. Shared a can of coke or something next to a speaker. Nice.
eurgh
sharing a can of drink?? EURGH!!! MINGING!!!
IT'S OVER. DON'T CALL ME.
wow - that was the shortest relationship i've ever had
*never had
i'm sorry
take me back?
you will have to send me "virtual" flowers
(then I'll think about it)
this?
http://www.speakingroses.com/Themes/Default/Images/landing-page/red-rose-p1-love.jpg
That's so cool, Raz!
LOL.
OK - it's 'virtually' back on
:)
it was just a power thing
you're dumped again
*picks up rose and slaps it against wall until all the
petals on the 'speaking rose' are on the floor and there is nothing but a stem in my hand.
*the above 'power' thing is just so true, innit? it's all a power play.
i'd love to pick you up and slap you against the wall?
...
Pretty girls have such hard lives. :(
I admire your lack of embarrassment
yeah, i'm really shallow, remember
...
I dont think your shallow,
I know exactly what you mean, it's always the blokes I dont like that ask me out, and the ones I do never do :(
Also rejecting someone is as horrid (well for me anyway) as being rejected yourself. I get the stomach ache and feel like a total bitch and i hate to hurt someones feelings.
So my point is, Rose, I feel your pain.
Thanks - I didn't want to come across as being really shallow
because I'm not. But it's just ironic sometimes the way things work out.
There is actually someone I really want to ask out and have for some time but I am scared of rejection!!!! Whooo hooo! There you have it!
I dont think saying what you said makes you shallow at all!
In fact I'd quite like to know, why should you feel guilty for this?
I have NEVER asked anyone out EVER, im scared of rejection too :(
I suppose if we were all scared of rejection
then no one would ask anyone out!
I was responding to Traynor's comment on my 'lack of embarassment'.
Actually, not sure WHY I should feel embarassed about it? Just trying to generate discussion... get some views.. blah blah.
I haven't asked anyone out in AAAAAAAGES.
The thing is, this guy did ask me out ages ago - to a gig - and I didn't go... as was tied up with friends... so I've kind of blown my chance.. as have casually suggested going out a few times but NO BITE.
Oh well.
:(
...
What you need to say: "Hey [name], [band] are playing at [venue][time][date]. Meet me there. Buy me [quantity] of [brand of alcohol]. Afterwards we'll go to [house] and I'll [sexual activity]"
Guys love that.
Wow - have you tried that?
?
I don't think I could ever do that but perhaps the direct approach might work?
honey, you need to calm down
the very visual of that vinegerette bath has concerned me.
Hahahaha!
But even if I knew that was a fail safe asking out thing. Theres still the matter of plucking up the courage to ACTUALLY say it to them :(
HA HA HA HA
NOT YOU, JAMES!!!! :)
I was talking about someone else! Who asked me out last night!
Gosh
I never realised before just how hard life is for people who get asked on dates. It's like walking through fucking razor blade fire glass with the six hundred, isn't it? Or is it more like being beaten to death with a bad AIDS dog? Or is it more like when you're in Pret A Manger and they give you a Salmon Rocket Soy Baguette when you clearly asked for a Chilean Veal Butterscotch Wrap?
...
It's like raaaaiiiaaainn on your wedding day!
ha fucking ha
Probably the best post ever
^ this.
my eyes, MY EYES! the googles, they do nothing!
incredible
I love you, Parsefone.
Look
Considering the shit that life throws at people, the area of relationships should be one of fun, risk, joy, unexpectedness, surprise, laughter and, occassionally, falling on your arse.
Look
Considering the shit that life throws at people, the area of relationships should be one of fun, risk, joy, unexpectedness, surprise, laughter and, occassionally, falling on your arse.
Traynor, that is probably the most sensible thing you have said
for some time
So
You think I normally talk rubbish?
No
please don't take everything i say literally unlike some.
You are right tho.
I generally don't have anything to complain about in my life.
Next time someone I don't like asks me out.
I'll say to them "Look lifes shit enough already without a loser like you asking me out and forcing me to reject you."
Look
Considering the life that people throw at shit, the area of falling on your arse should be one of despair, despair, despair, despair and, occasionally, death.
Argh!
If you have a heart and you've ever had to reject someone you will know how wretched it feels. It makes me feel physically sick, literally.
No it doesn't.
I've rejected you five times now, and every time I do it I laugh a bit longer.
I still love you though my Darling
<3
Something to look forward too:
You have been in a relatioship for four years and then, one day, you wake up and decide you'd like to dump your partner, just like that, leaving them in a state of despair, homeless, and completely wrecked.
Despair.
*to
what? did this happen to you or is it a ficticious scenario
and I've been in that situation too - except it was 6 years. and it wasn't 'just like that'.
i've been in that situation too
except it was three months. and it WAS 'just like that'. dating a tommy cooper impressionist was always going to be a bad idea.
sigh.
that seemed much funnier in my head
blah.
i laughed
me too
i wanked
me too
i cried
me too
whatever happened to
Airhead?
Do 76 year olds still go out on dates?!
In which case, "live young, die old" etc etc.
I've never really asked anyone out
except my first girlfriend when I was sixteen. It's much better to just get pissed with people and let the booze work it's magic.
I swear the human race would die out if it wasn't for booze.
LET'S HERE IT FOR BOOZE!
No that's meths
I drink moker
What?