My closest friend went to public school and I went to the 'normal school' yet we're friends - he wasn't a border so I find he's mates with everyone - one person I know who was a boarder can't form relationships with women and he's almost 30 and still only speaks to 'the chaps' who he has a connection with through the 'trads' of school and university - so, is public school only good if you don't 'board' and does it make you super confident and did anyone go?