How do you rate your tea making skills? And are you satisfied with the skills of those who make tea for you?

I've been dragged into a tea making circle with the people sitting around me but whenever someone else makes the tea it's never as good as when I make it myself (i.e. really weak or sugar not stirred in at all).

You can't complain cos that makes you seem ungrateful, but I'd rather make all my own tea and be able to savour the flavour.

Am I just being a whinging whinger?