Beleive it or not I have a brother who is older than me a total misfit - happily we never ever see each other or communicate and should hopefully stay that way - he was in Iraq during the Gulf War and 'loved it' from what I heard and now writes technical manuals for bombs - Ive not actually had a conversation with him since I was 13 so I guess I've not lost out and I susalyl tell people Im an only child - anyone else have completely pointless siblings?