i need a bit of advice / support really. ive just found out my grandfather died tonight. he had a stroke on tuesday and he never recovered. im pretty shocked and cut up by it. he's the first person close to me to have passed away thank god (my other grandfather died too young for me to understand) but i dont know what to do.
my family are in shrewsbury im in manchester. ive said i want to go down tomorrow but they said not to as itl mostly be making arrangements but i feel like i should be doing more,. that probably sounds stupid but even now i feel like i should be doing something

sorry for posting this, its just sometimes easier to say things on here i guess