Alarming thread title there. I personally have no intention of this being a part of my future. However curiosity calls for this thread. I would be worried about poking little Jimmy/Jeanna in the head but I'm sure that isn't possible. Also it would probably be more comfortable from behind towards the later stages. I advise you to respond in this manner : I have heard from a friend that.... Rather than implicate yourselves as it's a sensitive topic. ;)