more forgiveable than cheating?

i genuinely don't know how i feel about these things anymore. most cheating, i'm not even sure is that bad. it's obviously a symptom os a shitty relationship. like, cheating on someone and then staying with them, that's bad. but if you 'accidentally' cheat on someone then break up with them then that seems ok. what about sleeping with someone that you know is in a relationship. that seems like a grey area. i think i'm struggling with my moral stance at the moment. maybe i'm becoming a nihilist as well.

i find people are very good at judging others and taking the moral high ground (hi dis). you also find that people will judge things more harshly if it doesn't involve people they know. how many of you know people that have done something questionable that you have let fly. all of you. that's right.

i also learned this word;

DEONTOLOGICAL