i have a friend who will rarely, if ever, reply to a text if it would be to say 'no', 'can't make it tonight' or anything along those lines. which as i'm sure you can imagine, is a real pain if i've been planning to do something with this friend and then when the time arrives i just don't hear from him or he doesn't show up, and doesn't give me an explanationg until the next time we meet.

i fail to see any kind of logic or good reasoning to this kind of behaviour.

do you know anyone like this? are you yourself like this?

discuss.