has this been posted before/anyone see it in the paper?
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/families/article4332635.ece

the responses:
http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/families/article4374518.ece

i really don't know what to make of the whole thing. they seem like reasonable people, and when they explain it, it sounds like no harm was done. but...ewww!