I met a girl who works in another office of my company a couple of weeks ago. We realised we like similar music, got on well and have been e-mailing since.

This Saturday I am going to a friend's engagement party in the city of said office. I asked if she fancied meeting up on the Sunday before I come home. She has said yes and is travelling in to meet me.

Is this a date? Will she be treating it as such? I can't make my mind up. Girls seem to be telling me it is and chaps that I am just meeting her for a chat.