though i've never really thought about this, people today seem to be mentioning 'spaces left' and suchlike.

i was pretty much of the opinion that there was a lot of people that i HAVE to invite. even old family friends etc that i don't know. just cos it's the done thing.

therefore, that may dictate the size of my wedding (have fun with THAT dad)?

or am i just being weddinginexperienced?