what your life would be like if you hadnt found that 'band' that you built years of your life around. 3 years ago i found the band The National and ive spent so much time listening to them, only seen them once :(, but i suppose its been a long term relationship. However, ive made so many decisions based on the song i had been listening to by them etc. Anybody feel the same way and have interesting stories about how they affected something you did?