About a year ago when i split up with my girlfriend i had a fling with a girl i used to work with. from the offset i told her i didnt want a relationship and made is completely clear that i only wanted a bit of fun....and she said the same and we used to sleep together sometimes after we had been out usually.

After an while she started to come on a bit strong and i used to get texts from her, usually when drunk saying she hated me and i was a twat...which would always be followed by apologies saying she didnt mean it, she was just drunk. i always just brushed it off and maintained i didnt want a relationship and i didnt think it would be a good idea if we slept together anymore. Over the last few weeks she has been turning up at my house, abusing me by text, asking if its ok to come around and when i have told her that i am busy she has gone beserk.

Last week i lost my rag down the phone and said she was behaving like a pyscho and if she carried on i would just cut contact with her. i then said 'get it into your head, nothing is going to happen between us'...to which she worringly shouted 'i dont want to hear it, i dont want to hear it'

Well on friday she gave me a load of shit by text to which i ignored and then ignored the token apology yesterday morning. Today i have come around my mum and dads for sunday lunch and she called me up there...saying she was outside my house!! I was fucking mortified. I couldnt really say that much in front of my folks but i was livid. The whole situation is starting to drive me insane. I have not done anything with this girl in ages and have maintained from the outset that i dont want any type of relationship.

I am starting to get a bit worried now as the type of things she is doing are bordering on obsessive. has anyone else been in this situation? I need some advice on what to do next. When i get home later i feel like phoning her up and going fucking mental at her as i am so pissed off, i dont even know how she got my parents number.