i don't normally like people spilling their emotional problems all over the boards, but, fuck it - you all usually give good enough advice.

SO. my cousin has been in hospital (a childrens hospital no less) for 5 weeks, and still isn't eating. she hasn't put on or lost any weight. her mum keeps telling us she's fine, her dad and sister the opposite.

apparently her mum also found a 'thinspiration' note in her pencilcase, and she is still allowed her mobile AND access to the internet. should she be?

basically i don't *really* know what to do, if i see the parents, what do i say? i just have no idea. uck. yuck.