Very large, large scandals and secrets.

I'm talking within social circles, not like nationwide bungs or whatever, but things with your friends, that if they emerged, would be pretty catastrophic.

Now, I think that eventually, big secrets always come out, in some way or another. But my friend is disagreeing with me, and says the only reason I'm saying this, is because I don't hear about the secrets that haven't emerged.

What do you think?