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I don't know if you remember me from my "friendless" post, but as a result of that post I joined two online dating sites a month ago and looked through a couple more without joining.
I've messaged about 10 or so people so far and all of them either read my message and haven't replied or just deleted it without even reading it (the site lets you know if they read your message or not). Two people actually did initiate a conversation with me, but they both had boyfriends!
Could any of you help me figure out what I'm doing wrong? I have a decent picture of myself up (I'm average looking, not hideous or anything) and I think that I made up a decent description of myself. The messages I sent were not creepy in any way, they all went something like:
"Hi, I read your profile and you seem like an interesting person. I noticed from your profile that you like ___, I also like ____. Do you like ____? Would you like to know more about me?"
What am I doing wrong exactly to where nobody wants to even send me a message back? How do I not find a date on a dating site?