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i think cheating can be justified
im not very good at putting my point across in 'print' im better if you speak to me in person but my favourite sex advice columnist can do it for me:
http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=26100
everyone should read savage love anyway.
there are more examples but i cant be bothered to go through his entire archive right now (though i have read almost his entire archive, from the bottom, very amusing, educational, good for sexual emotional intelligence and v. interesting re: sex politics in america)
ps. i've never cheated ona boyfriend myself, just in case you're all thinking im some jezebel desperately trying to justify myself