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i completely rely on girls making the first move. or at least making their feelings pretty obvious.
for me to risk doing it.
what wrong with everyone?
I don't know if I'll ever have the bottle to try and chat up a random girl in a club. That's pretty darn heartbreaking.
i've always ended up 'getting with' girls i was already like friends with.
Maybe 'chatting-up girls' is completely invention of the media?
however i have been purposefully flirty with girls who are doing the same and seeing where it goes etc. Not sure if that counts
in a club. it's a bit weird.
go up to girls and be like "hey babe can I get you a pint of tennants?" or as in being especially flirty with someone you've met and like?
Going up to a stranger in a club and talking to her with the final intention of inserting your penis into her vaginal orifice.
that was a good day.
makes me cringe when I see people do it, i'd rather be alone than embarrass myself
though I dont remember exactly what I do as whenever I do get in these situations it seems to be spontainously on the dance floor and I have no idea how the fuck I got in them in the first place.
I think girls know as soon as they see you whether they are interested or not. The talking bit is just an obstacle course, the aim of which being to try and avoid sounding like a dick. In a nightclub/ drunk scenario I suspect personality/ wit is a firm second in peoples priorities.
the guy from burial?
A couple of successes
Basically, get to it.
but not in a "excuse me, have you got any italian in you?" "No" "would you like some?" kind of way, more of a "oh hi, my name is pip i think you're beautiful, will you come dance with me?" sort of thing.
It doesn't stop you from getting with someone though.
and stick at it.