is it wrong to be at all involved with someone who a few years ago was going out with a friend of yours? what if when you met, you didn't realise this?
i think that's acceptable
however: what if you find out that the reason that they broke up is that the person that they cheated on your friend. does this make it worse, with regards to your friend? obviously it makes the person of suspect honour...
i think there's a six-month rule.
it's been years
meaning how long did their relationship last.
more than six months i'd steer clear, unless she was really REALLY fit.
ah
it was about a year, but long distance... she is really really pretty tho
This situation is similar one I'm in.
It resulted in the loss of a good friend. D:
But you can't help who you love, right?
love isnt an issue
i get on really well with this girl, but i'm not interested in having a relationship with her.
then why bother?
i really like sex?
and i really like spending time with people that i get on really well with?
thus the opporttunity to hang out with and fuck a girl that i like a lot is appealing to me?
Find one that isn't your mates ex then.
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get fucked
easy, I was just pointing out that you could find a nice girl
without the history. If you aren't interested in anything more then why risk the bother?
thats a bit silly given that you asked for input
are you suprised some people dont agree with you?
and yet, that's what you're trying to do..
If you had really fallen for her
and wanted to be with her, then I would say go for it, but if it's just for a casual type thing, then I think you need to think more about it.. Would your friend be upset about it? And what's her stance on it all?
So you just want to sex her?
how gauche.
see above.
sloppy seconds
I don't go for that. I couldn't bare it besides they've done the squelchy.
I went out with a friends ex
shes my ex now to like but we went out for over 2 and a half years and are still good mates now.
i just dont think i would really want to
just do it
if she cheats on you, gun butt that bitch
i wouldn't mind if a friend dated one of my exes
though saying that, it's never happened so far. I really doubt i'd get weird about it though.
I would never date a friend's ex unless i 100% knew my friend didn't mind. Even then i don't think i could take the idea of being a mate's sloppy seconds.
Don't knob your mates ex
If you do, then you are a souless cunt.
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it's happened to me before and it's really shit.
I wouldn't put it in my mouth.
you do not do it
i wouldn't want to do it.
only do it if you're sure you have a bigger penis than your friend.
but still don't do it.
I
Went travelling with a friend and close to going my ex (and still good friend at the time) and her mate asked if they could tag along for a bit. 3 months later I find out they had been getting off together, behind my back for the majority of the time. Needless to say I fucked them off and never spoke to them again. I'd been with her a couple of years prior to that. Cunts.
ok if they have moved on
with someone else and don`t care any more it should be ok however your friend my warn you if there reltionship ended due to her that to make sure you don`t get taken for a mug
No problem
whatsoever if it was years ago. I know people who are now married to their friends' exes.
one of my closest friends
is now going out with my ex-boyfriend. i was with him for three years. i finished with him, and then four months later, he got with her.
i was upset for about three days and then got over it.
it's still a bit weird seeing them together but i'm okay about it because it makes me LOL that she's got to put up with him.
also, i will admit that i decided to be really good and mature about it all because it meant that I WON. yeah.