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dropping out of Uni

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by team_cooper

has anyone done this?
srsly considering this over the last few months and think it's coming to a head on this overcast monday morn.
although i'm scared of the prospect of going through clearing to get a new uni, but also dont want to spend another year not studying and feel i'v left it far too late in the academic year to make a call like this.
anyone got experience of this sorta thing?
please refrain from the normal "stupid student yr degree will be meaningless" stuff as, even though it's still as funny as when first uttered, i'm just not really up for it today.

team_cooper | 07 Jul '08, 11:31 | Send note | Report this | Reply

I left after one year

The course was awful and I went a bit mental for the last few months. If you're really not enjoying it and haven't been for a long time, it'll be quite liberating to just get it off your shoulders. But it's not a decision to take lightly.


if you aren't enjoying it

or think its worthless and want to do something else, I suggest getting on with changing it now before you throw another year away, get further into debt, and start collecting further 'i should've done this or that' based regrets and sit in your parents farm based bungalow rocking backwards and forwards hating everything about your loathsome self and wondering when it will all end.


:'(

oh god, so true. But replace bungalow with 'old cottage.'


oh jesus


:)

not really, I like all the rabbits and cows


oh adam!

im sorry for not coming out thursday.... im in leicester over the weekend!


it would depend on the circumstances

so i can't give an informed answer.

It would be the very last option though. Is there a possibility of transferring to another uni?


also

you may be able to change degree without losing the year.

Consider your options would be my advice.


possibly not

i've contacted a uni that offered me a place for last year. and im not gona lie, it sounded a bit desperate, but i've asked what the score would be on retaking their offer. wait and see on that one i guess.
the thing is that i love the uni, and the friends i've made there, but can't help but think the degree's pointless and i could be studying something more 'beneficial'.


If that's the case

then talk to your tutor or someone at your uni, and see whether there's any possibility of getting onto a course that's "more suited to what you want to do" (use that line for your tutor, although you can be more honest outside the department) as well - you don't necessarily have to go elsewhere to study something else.


What is it your studying....

You'd be surprised how some seemingly random degree can lead into a different area?


How long have you been there for?

I dropped out after 2 years, which left me with a diploma. I was having doubts in the first year, but was pressed into continuing- which in retrospect was a mistake.
If you're not enjoying it or think you're learning, then maybe a break will do you good- you can always reapply.


the course

see above to my response to button


What are the main problems?

Don't be rash here. Consider the actual cost of the money you've dropped on your tuition so far, for a start.


Oh man

I've just read your response above; that's not far off the worst possible reason you could have for dropping out. What degree is it? Unless you've decided in the last year that you have a 'calling,' and that this course will absolutely not help you achieve that goal, then you may well find yourself in the same situation wherever you go.


Yes

I did this after a year. By christmas it was clear things weren't working. I stopped going to lectures, bought a play station and sat in the student bar all day playing pool and drinking Snake Bs for 2 terms. I left, got a job and have done a few courses at nightschool. It's now all good!


i've

still been attending lectures (well, just about) and handing in the work and passing well and things....but this years gone so fast i can just imagine it being 2 years time and i've got this "degree" and i a.dont know what to do with it b.will wish it was from somewhere else/for something else.


An awful lot of people

feel like that after their degree regardless of what it is. Here's one simple thing you can do that could change your outlook: book an appointment with your careers service if you have one. They have extensive statistics on what graduates with your degree go on to do afterwards; I as-good-as-guarantee that it won't be what you expect. If you don't have one, you could look on www.prospects.ac.uk, but talking to someone about this will really help.


that's

really helpful; and i've already found the relevant site on my uni that i didn't know exsisted.
i had these thoughts before christmas and thought to myself "im going to push for activities outside of my course and hope that it makes up for the degree" but my enthusiasm left as i got more and more rejections for various things, but this has prickd up my tail again.
thanks alot.


No worries at all!

I totally know the feeling; it was a trip to the careers people that put me back on track with my undergrad degree.

It's a little depressing, this; but the core values of most undergrad degrees are very similar. Unless, that is, you're doing a very, very specialised subject; and man, you gots to be some plenty committed to even get a whiff of getting onto those. Someone once told me that the subject of your degree won't impact your life much; just 'get the letters after your name.' You sound like you're on the right track applying for outside stuff; keep on with that, regardless of rejections, and they'll provide practical experience that goes far beyond the content of most degree courses..

Hope it works out well!


Best thing I ever did

Dropped out after year 2 but returned after a year off to complete my final 2 years.....made loads of friends in my "new" 3rd year and did a lot better academically than I would have had I done all 4 years straight through.

Only problem is I racked up quite a lot of debt on my year out but I still maintain that the break was the best thing I've ever done in my life.


I'm lucky in this sense

I've got a year in a proper job to get my head straight academically about my important final year.

I still want to do a masters a lot though. I think I'd love that.


serious points

1. what u study? if its somthing arty and ur not enjoying, then stop cos it probs wont get u a better job than if u didnt have one.
2. u'd probs have to move back home, so if u live in the sticks ur probably not aware how hard it is to get a job there, that u can actually live off.

sooo yeah do it if u live in a city and have opportunities the respect of having a degree can be offset by.


what year are you in?

if you've just come to the end of your first year drop out. If it's the second or third year stick it out/retake a year if you have to.

do you know what you want to do in your life career wise?


If you like the Uni and the people there...

...don't leave if you can find another course which you think might be more suitable at the same place.

I know a couple of people who moved courses twice in two years, they both eventually settled on a course and finished it, and are doing that for a job now.


Two of my friends dropped out of uni this year.

One was studying some kind of science, Chemistry perhaps and left mid year to work in a pharmacy full time and the other was doing phsychology and realised she didn't like it as much as she thought she would, so she keft mid year also and is going to college to do photography next year.

I think if you have an idea of what you'd rather do and know how to go about doing that instead, ie stay in education or work, I'd say drop out because you don't seem to be enjoying it.. This would probably be the best time to drop out if you are going to.


Also..

I almost dropped out of college this year after I found out I had an unconditionl for uni next year and I'm really glad I didn't, as I feel I've achieved something and have another HNC to add to my CV (if I pass that is...).


I think in all honesty, you shouldn't rule anything out

In retrospect, I think my life might have been better had I actually considered leaving after my first year. I had a pretty miserable year all told, just felt very alone and pretty dislocated from everything. Hence starting to post on here a shitload more.

I never considered dropping out, because I've always expected to go to uni, and I had this overriding feeling that it would be the best years of my life. Thankfully I have enjoyed second year, but I don't think Bath is really 'my' university. I don't think the atmosphere suits me. Ironically, in this case at least, my course is what kept me at uni I think. I really enjoy a lot of it, and I have spread my wings a bit in terms of friends, and also stopped being so afraid of being different.

All I'd say is that you need to weigh everything up. If the course isn't right, you shouldn't be there maybe. But university isn't just about the course, and maybe something you think is worthless will be good because you actually enjoy doing it.


i think unless you're massively unhappy

you should stick with it if you've done a year already. only 2 left and you'll have a degree, otherwise you're left in limbo with the possibility of no uni or 3 years to do a degree. is it worth a year of your life, basically?


I dropped out after a year...

due to money issues and just generally not enjoying University life.

I took a couple of years out, clearing debts, working etc. And I'm now back at a much better Uni with no significant money problems, and having a much less stressful time.

I still hate the majority of students I've met though.





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