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My dad had an affair.

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by chomper

my mum seems to of forgiven him and has taken him back, but I don't think I can. Should I move out?

chomper | 02 Jul '08, 19:00 | Send note | Report this | Reply

If I move out

I might not speak to him again and not sure I want that either


i dont know

i dont like reality much


Would it help if

someone started a thread about moving out of their starship because their space commander had an affair?


yes

MUCH BETTER


Done.


8/10


Erm,

can you give more details, I'm not saying 'pics plz', but you haven't given us much to go on...


Yes. Immediately.

Don´t even bother looking for a new place, just pack up your stuff and GO. The open road, thats your new home now. With just a can of beans and a pocketful of dreams... etc.


get back to that Jack Kerook, beatnik boy

i think my mum has had an affair. but it never came out, and my parents split up anyway. ho hum


I say

if you want to go, go.


22!?

You should have moved out already!

I turned eighteen just over a month ago and i've moved to the other end of the country in a privately rented flat already, and my dad didn't even have an affair!


^ not everyone has that

luxury though.


it's not a luxury at all

i have to pay my own rent, im mega poor and am desperately looking for a job.


i get that.

but its the initial moving costs that get you.


I guess

luckily my boyfriend found the flat paid the deposit and my parents just moved me up there after my first exam. Im defiantly lucky, but i wouldn't say it was a luxury...


what luxury?

the luxury of having the balls to get started with yr life?


you do

i don't


That's because your parents are cunts.

Even I'd move out if I lived with them, and I'm practically on the dole.


my parents are lovely!

my mum makes the best vegan cheesecake EVAR


^bullshit^


vegan = gay


no

vegan=a different diet to yours.


Lucky you

I don't earn an awful lot to be able to do it easily


do you have any friends

that will let you kip on their couch? Might give you some space and time away to think about what you want to do...

Sometimes being in the middle of everything doesn't give you room to breathe.


That's

Not a bad idea


so....it happens.

Don't dwell on it.


Easier

said than done mate


Your 22.

You don't need no consolation. They have obviously figured it out...let it lye.


Yeah

I know you're right. It's difficult that's all


dude,

that may be the way you would deal with it, but its different for every person.


oh so this thread wasnt to ask for peoples opinions?

YOUVE GOT IT ALL WRONG BUMBLER


My mum had an affair

Many years ago, it all died down and my parents got over it.

I have a suspicion that guy is back and think she's at it again.
What a bitch.





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