But I don't think I'm TOO nice. i.e. I dont people take advantage of my niceness, etc blaady-bla.
However, this usually means no girls want to go out with me. Either that or I'm butters...
Quite a few girls in my year at school have been quite openly praising about how I'm really nice recently - it was actually quite extraordinary, I was well chuffed.
...Yeah. Just thought I'd elaborate because no one else was...
Hi!
I assume most people are nice, but if I get bad vibes about someone (on some irrational basis) I usually shut off, and the niceness becomes a bit forced.
Generally, I try never to be mean (IRL) or make people feel uncomfortable, but I'm not sure that's being 'nice'. It's just civil right?
Everyone keeps telling my mum how great I am. But to counter that, I spend most of my time outside work being a total bastard. Including a lot of my time on here.
Last night I nearly 'offered out' a teenage boy. That's not very nice, but it got results.
Only this time I decided I wasn't going to take any shit. Nothing actually happened. He just started being a dick and I threatened him with imminent attack. So he stopped.
I'm nice to more or less everyone, unless they're an absolute cunt. I can be quite horrible around friends and people I'm confortable with, but to the unsuspecting eye I pull a cheesey grin and they think I'm nice. Or cute, people call me cute alot.
are you generally 'nice' because you're generally a nice person who finds it hard to get annoyed with people/things. OR because youre a spineless moaner who never stands up for themselves
but more towards the happy clappy side of things. but i dont like to confront people really either. the only time i would consider it would be extreme circumstances
i assume that means i'm not nice. im not so sure that horrible people always get further in life though, surely there are some nice people around who are successful?!
yeah but my friends don't think so
Yes.
Yes, I am!
No, not really
yep, think so.
i have no idea
you tell me
actually, don't
yes
but I am a cint honestly I harangue two of my frineds incessantly
cunt, friends ^
nope
Evil, polite, but evil
Yes, apparently anyways
I am.
But I don't think I'm TOO nice. i.e. I dont people take advantage of my niceness, etc blaady-bla.
However, this usually means no girls want to go out with me. Either that or I'm butters...
Quite a few girls in my year at school have been quite openly praising about how I'm really nice recently - it was actually quite extraordinary, I was well chuffed.
...Yeah. Just thought I'd elaborate because no one else was...
Hi!
i remember school
cute, nice and sweet can mean anything anyone wants it to.
"ermmmm... i said you were sweet that doesn't mean i like you..."
"well i said you were sweet, that mean i like you doesn't it!?"
To infinity and beyond!
So very glad I am free of all that lovely messy confusion.
I found out
a girl didn't want to go out with me because I'm "too nice" (genuine quote), apparently.
...Just to emo this thread up a bit.
no
I think I lack the ability.
Absolutely lovely
to acquaintances and people I don't know all that well
But I have the ability to be an absolute cunt to those I love
too much so
yes
im positively perfect.
and modest, too!
i'm generally awkward
What the fuck's it got to do with you?
However, I'd say "yes".
I don't know
I assume most people are nice, but if I get bad vibes about someone (on some irrational basis) I usually shut off, and the niceness becomes a bit forced.
Generally, I try never to be mean (IRL) or make people feel uncomfortable, but I'm not sure that's being 'nice'. It's just civil right?
Much more so than anywho on here who cares to imagine
would probably imagine so.
Yes apparently so.
Although on occasion, if I'm in a really bad mood I can be an utter cunt.
I try to be
my recent endeavor is to look shop-workers and other similar people I come across in the eye when saying thank you, instead of just rushing off.
but I can be a thoughtless wanker sometimes
I try
yes
Yes, definitely.
At work, I'm very nice
Everyone keeps telling my mum how great I am. But to counter that, I spend most of my time outside work being a total bastard. Including a lot of my time on here.
Last night I nearly 'offered out' a teenage boy. That's not very nice, but it got results.
more details needed please
Haven't heard the phrase 'offered out' for a long time
It was another dog walk incident
Only this time I decided I wasn't going to take any shit. Nothing actually happened. He just started being a dick and I threatened him with imminent attack. So he stopped.
yes. yes i am.
I like to think so
Yes
Thrown in with a dash of passive/aggressive, just for kicks.
yes
not especially
I'm a bit of a knob and I'm an expert at alienating people.
people don't believe me
but i am really really niceq
Yes
I'm nice to more or less everyone, unless they're an absolute cunt. I can be quite horrible around friends and people I'm confortable with, but to the unsuspecting eye I pull a cheesey grin and they think I'm nice. Or cute, people call me cute alot.
are you nice, but dim, tim?
im generally pretty nice
;)
yes I am
if I'm horrible to anyone, even if I have good reason to be, I feel intensely guilty about it afterwards.
the real question is:
are you generally 'nice' because you're generally a nice person who finds it hard to get annoyed with people/things. OR because youre a spineless moaner who never stands up for themselves
i'm certainly the latter :(
i think im a cross between the 2
but more towards the happy clappy side of things. but i dont like to confront people really either. the only time i would consider it would be extreme circumstances
interesting...
.
i try to be, and i think people think so
yeah, i really think so.
i never do anything with malicious intent, have alot of empathy and genuinnely care about people.
i try to act like the wolrds what i'd like it to be.
Yup.
Too much so. However, when I deviate from this, and act like a dick, I feel guilty, and then return to being too nice.
Ho hum.
sounds familiar
Yes but not in the bland and boring way the word tends to have connotations of.
People think I am.
But I kind of see myself as really bitter and unfriendly.
I guess it's better than it being the other way around.
Yes, I'm lovely.
Moms and old people love me thats a true sign.
maybe.
i'd like to vouch for harru, sadpunk and thesoundofbastards niceness while im here
You really are very nice!
I'm nice
People tend to say I'm nice.
I'm not totally convinced it's a good thing
people say nothing about me
i assume that means i'm not nice. im not so sure that horrible people always get further in life though, surely there are some nice people around who are successful?!
i've become totally evil
today i told a chugger to "fuck off, seriously". lord knows what i'd have done if he fucked off light-heartedly.