This is driving me mental!
Ok so this girl who made me the cd right, i like her, not sure if she likes me but weve been hanging out and like all the same stuff and shes nice and we get on well etc. etc.
She did have a boyfriend ages ago when met her, not sure if she still does but she never mentions him to me or anything so perhaps not.
I was at her house today and we watched alan partridge for a bit, but then she had to go to work. She invited me back over to watch it another day, i joked saying she is only inviting me because she wants to watch my alan partridge dvd, she agreed as a joke but then said 'im only joking, its good to spend time with you! and the dvd is a bonus'
should i go for it?
i just dont wanna make it all weird if she doesnt like me as shes cool, and i dont wanna be crushed!
Just do it, see what happens
go for it?
what are you planning to do to her?
tenderly tell her that i like her
then ask her to marry me and form a family band and tour the country
oh!
in which case, yeah, go for it.
i'm really good at replying
this is your advice to everything.
(it's pretty good advice. but you know, you could vary it up a bit.)
Its how the world should work and you know it
Okay, here's what you do
Put a CONDOM in the hole in the DVD. Then when you're taking it out of the case, you can be like "Omg, how did that get there?!" Then you can be like "But since we have it..." Thank me later.
Actually, that wouldn't work
Put the condom in the DVD case.
more sensible that way
the fact that you are single
astounds me
Do it!
She likes La Quiete.
Its a win win situation.
1) unzip fly
2) remove penis
3) point and her
4) point at penis
5) shrug
you are forgetting
i have a tiny penis
I don't think he has forgotten
as long as it's not a micropenis
you'll be fine
Now I know why I've been been doing it wrong all these years!
I don't have a detachable penis!! :(
:D
i'm such a fanny
At least you're not a freak
:(
freak!
freak
Go for the kill..........
ALWAYS better to know, whatever the outcome.
yeah but how we are now is alright
and im a massive pussy
Thing is, as you've said yourself....
she's cool.
What's the worst that will happen if a guy that she already really likes/shares lots in common with asks her out?
She may say no, but there's no way she'll stop being friends with you.
do you promse that?!
Absolutely!
You can have free drinks at Zonino 3.5 if I'm wrong.
thats a very tempting offer
facebook status?
i dont have her on facebook
i know! i know!
sort that out then
she doesnt know anyone that i know
which makes this problem even worse as i cant ask them for advice!
And then poke her?
nah
just add her, find out if she's single. if so, go out for drinks and touch her bum.
thats not my style!
im rubbish at doing stuff like that
MTFU
well
i asked my girlfriend what she thinks (considering this thread is a sausage-fest so far) and she thinks that she likes you because:
she invited you over again and admitted she likes spending time with you.
her advice is to go in for the kill.
my advice is also to go in for the kill but if she rejects your advances then feign drunkness.
good advice
im trying to weigh up 'shes just being nice' with 'shes hinting' and i cant decide which one i think
there should be rules for this kind of thing!
i thought youwere gai, for some reason....sorry :S
but yes - just go for it. Nothing to lose, really. If you don't take the chance you could be missing out on som'tin pretty good.....and if you do and it doesn't happen, i'm sure you will live.
what made you think i was gay?
or is that just you getting back at me? :P
yeah if you put it like that it seems silly not to say something. im just fucking scared
Maybe its the looking for excuses not to act in romantic situations?
bachelor and serial womaniser ^
You knows it
Man of the world, me. :D
^^dreamer of the world
no no, not getting back at you at all...
i think i was getting your user name mixed up with 'theetersecrimp' for some wild reason. he's gay, right?
but yeh - fuck it, just do it. scared or not, being of the opposite gender, i know i would rather know (whether i was into him or not) if a guy was into me. it's REALLY hard to tell sometimes. go on :)
it's the hair
it could be, yes :)
like other have already mentioned.
go for the fucking kill man.
yeah!
kill her
sex her
ask for advice later
'So, disposing of corpses, then (I'd never survive inside, my mouth is too pretty-centric)
:D
*cornhole
:D
Ok so i text her
strongly hinting that i really like her.
Now, we play the waiting game.
Oh the waiting game sucks lets play hungry hungry hippos!
Hot damn Jack!
You sent her a text at this time of night?
Is she the night owl type?
haha
she text me about half an hour ago, and we do usually text each other at this time so i thought itd be ok!
she sooooo wants a piece
you should probably hook us up with pics right about now
shes not replied yet!
you've ruined everything!
:(
not really
if this was me
this would be me acting interested and stuff.
yes
no brainer. if she is only inviting you as a friend, then you'll hang out as friends, and if she is interested in something more, you may stumble upon something more.
i haven't read the thread; this may have already been said.
how rude
what?
that you didn't read the rest of the thread
no biggie
Hmmm.
Your just a -good looking rebel who plays by you own rules. ...*How sweet*
Grow a pair.
what?
ok so you are about half hour later
you replied in the wrong place, and you are a cunt.
so fuck off, come back. then fuck off again.
:D
how is it going with the texting?
no reply
it did take me about an hour to reply to her, so to be fair shes probably asleep/will text me tomorrow. ill make sure to let everyone know
ok, i did read it now
if you and she are always texting this time of night, and she's made that mixtape for you, and all that other stuff from your previous thread about her, i'm guessing she's fancies you. but still maybe not. but in any case, you'll know now soon enough anyway. </useless analysis>
well not just this time of the night
pretty much all the time... well like when we arent doing stuff and that.
shes still not replied
guess ill have to wait til tomorrow
well, that's even better
I'd say she most definitely fancies you then.
fingers crossed!
she might just be being nice though
that would be a lot of time and effort to put into "just being nice" to one person, though
She likes you.
i suppose
i hope you are right!
Well
She has a new man in mind and she respects your opinion on such matters. Thus, she is being friendly in order to create an atmosphere where she ask your advice comfortably about this man that she desires. So, yeah, go for it.
Cheers Traynor!
:D
i demand more from this thread
more more more more
*bangs hand on the table
this thread demands more from you
no way
"good advice" - fucktherave
i've done all i can, it's up to him now.
from a girl perspective
I think she would have told you if she liked you by now. Or just indicated in some way.
But then if you leave it too long, she might be a bit weirded out you didn't say anything earlier, and she just thought you were being 'friendly' all along.
Ha ha, how helpful that is. Good luck xx
Go for it.
she
clearly wants you!
I don't get this
Surely you know if someone fancies you or not. And if you think they might not, then they probably don't.
It's not easy to know these things.
I'm wrong almost 100.1% of the time. I think girls fancy me that don't and never know when girls actually do fancy me.
Really? I almost always know
You can tell by their body language. Particularly when naked in bed...
sorry, 'normal' people are not welcome here
get out, you socially capable freak.
I'll make sure I close the door on my way out
believe me
you cant always tell
And you know, how many socially inept indie kids have posted on here about how they just avoid the person they fancy and pretty much do everything so they won't find out?
RAG HERR
RAG HEEEEERRR
tell her!
I'm currently having this dilemma, and like said person so much I think I'm going to tell them..maybe some point this week..but if you're friends anyway and she doesn't feel the same way, things should go back to normal pretty sharpish. Good luck!
UPDATE
so she replied saying we should make time to see each other more.
Thats good right?
that's very good!
(that's more of a rhetorical question though, right? you should know she likes you by now)
I hope so!
Dammit, still not the silver bullet though, is it?
Why can they never text back with something like 'Yes, I'd love to!'...y'know, something truly unequivocal.
Why can't *you* text them something unequivocal in the first place?
There you go.
You miss the point Alex........
If you have been asked 'Would you like to go out with me?' (Not that I really condone SMS as a medium for this sort of thing, although it's kinda flirty so I see the appeal) you should answer YES or alternatively, NO.
He didn't say he asked her that.
He said he just hinted heavily. So you can see how I missed a point it was unclear was being discussed.
wink or something
^ that sounded very grave