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The saddest song ever written

what song breaks you up inside? what song shreds the bastions of stoicism and lets out floods of tears?

There's only ever been one for me: Disarm by Smashing Pumpkins.



  • Gets me every time

    'Casimir Pulaski Day' by Sufjan Stevens

    :-(

  • worried shoes by daniel johnstone

    the biggest lie by elliott smith

    • it's all about the

      bit where his voice rises as he sings "and everything that you do / makes me wanna die".
      great song.

    • That's not even the saddest Elliott Smith song

      Twilight >>>>>>>> The Biggest Lie, in terms of sadness. Actually, it probably >>>>>> everything. Good Woman by Cat Power pushes it close though, as does Bonnie 'Prince' Billy's Another Day Full of Dread. And Long Drive Home by Adem.

  • Biffy Clyro- the atrocity

    Sting and the police- Fields of gold
    The Who- behind blue eyes
    Travis- As you are

    I cry quite a bit, yes. I am a girl.

    :'(

    • Saaaaa-aaad

      Cat Power - Metal Heart
      Dirty Three - Some Summers They Drop Like Flies
      Boards of Canada - Melissa Juice

  • Autumn Almanac - The Kinks

  • bpb -

    i see a darkness

    for me it's the musical equivalent of catcher in the rye - cos it meant something different to me when i first heard it, to when i listen to it now.

    or

    tom waits - train song

  • tom waits

    take it with me

    • in fact

      most of the songs off disk 2 of orphans :)

    • metal heart-cat power

      casimir pulaski day-sufjan stevens
      5verses-jeremy warmsely
      strange things will happen- the radio dept.

  • maybe:

    Roy Orbison - It's Over

  • strange things will happen

    by the radio dept.

    i always mention that song.

    • thats cos its blantantly one of the finest

      songs ever.

  • Sodom, South Georgia by Iron & Wine

    made me a bit teary once. Then I pulled myself together, because I'm a man (grrrr!):

    "Papa died while my Girl Lady Edith was born. Both heads fell like Eyes on a crack in the door. And Sodom, South Georgia slept on an acre of bones. Slept through Christmas, slept like a bucket of snow."

    • ^

      this

      Twilight and also Needle In The Hay by Elliott Smith

      Casimir Pulaski Day by sufjan stevens

      Chelsea Girls - Nico

      and at the moment Ys makes me well up a bit, but it's not really that sad.

  • Hurt

    Johnny Cash version

    • god yes.

      amazing choice.
      the desolation, loss, loneliness, guilt, experience, knowledge that the end is coming... how did he get it all into one song?

    • .

      Agreed

      • Yep.

        If I watch the video to that as well its a killer :o(

        • The archive clip of Young Johnny coming round the barn

          is like being punched in the chest.

  • brick

    by ben folds five - once you know what its about, it becomes very, very sad... :(

    x

    • oooh also

      i love creedence-casiotone for the painfully alone.

    • i have heard it

      is there a specific person then?

      • its...

        ...about taking his teenage girlfriend to get a termination, just after christmas.

        :(

    • brick

      Agreed also. I hunted down the meaning for this song and you're right it is very sad. Listening to that song just makes me feel alone, and cold. You feel like its you driving that freezing cold car on boxing day morning. damn ive gotta listen to that song now

  • dr troll

    by xiu xiu, especially the fag patrol version

  • Sad or depressing i'm not sure

    but no song affects me much more than No Surprises.

    • Gillian Welch: My Morphine

  • oh and

    Silverchair- Untitled

    'and all I can think of are ways to die alone'

    • Silverchair

      are underrated.

      • they really are

        horribly so.

        • true fact

          kate bush had rehearsed a vocal part to contribute to Diorama, but it was never recorded due to scheduling reasons.

      • Martha

        by Tom Waits

      • Diorama is a masterpiece.

    • jesus, is it already time for another one of these threads?

      red house painters - loads of stuff
      ryan adams - loads of stuff off heartbreaker
      nick drake - loads of stuff off pink moon

  • Into My Arms..

    by Nick Cave

    • I don't think that's sad at all!

      It's romantic.

  • bf

    Dennis Wilson- "Thoughts of You" and "Time"

  • another :(

    John wayne gacy jr- Sufjan Stevens

    • I don't think that that is really

      a sad song.

      Kings Crossing by Elliott Smith. It's in my top 5 songs ever but is so sad when you consider he was dead a few days after recording it.

      Also...I'm So Lonesome I Could Cry by Hank Williams. That dude KNEW pain.

      • It makes

        me feel sad inside.

    • oh yes

      That song really gets me - the bit that's '27 people/even more, they were boys with their cars/summer jobs, oh my god' is just so full of emotion, the way he sings it...

      Also, How Do You Keep Love Alive by Ryan Adams. Holy fuck is that ever a killer heartbreak song. Would sound like treacle if it were by anyone else, but he gets away with it. For me it's the ultimate saddest song ever written.

      Shoot me for saying this, but some of the Queen ones written while Freddie was dying get bonus poignancy points for that...

  • ummm am I allowed

    to say Mad World- Michael Williams.

  • Too many...

    Currently, mostly,

    Smog - Nineteen

    • Actually...

      Mt. Eerie - Get Off The Internet

      (so true)

  • The Kids by Lou Reed

  • Incidentally, I think all great sad songs

    must carry a degree of hope. It somehow makes it more tragic and moving and awesome.

    • I disagree...

      The most depressing are the most hopeless.

      • Nah

        They're just kind of empty. The real skill is to make it uplifting and crushing at the same time, and if you get that right, you'll make me very sad indeed.

        90 by Friendstealer is actually probably sadder than The Kids.

        • I'm still not convinced...

          uplifiting + crushing = slightly uplifting

          crushing alone = crushing = more heartbreaking

          Sometimes, if there's a naive sorta hope, I guess...

          • You just get crushing overkill

            and it's more difficult to relate to. For me, anyway.

    • pigfoot is right

      that's why hurt and disarm are so powerful. Especially hurt, where he talks about finding a new home at the end.

      • Yes

        I think it's the having a little bit of hope in an ultimately desparate situation. Puts into perspective how awful the reality is, maybe.

        • see other songs

          blind pilots by cooper temple clause. The lyrics "I hope you never change, I hope you stay the same" sad, yet hopeful of constancy.

  • King's Crossing- Elliott Smith

    Road- Nick Drake

    • Mary of the wildmoor

      Pajo

  • Angel Eyes

    Yesterday when I Was Young

    I Get Along Without You Very Well

    No One Cares

    One For My Baby

    Send In The Clowns

    Mood Indigo

    ...Oh I can't decide!!

    • If I Could Talk - The Lemonheads

      4st 7lbs - Manics

  • The closest:

    Avalanche - RAZ

  • hmm

    so slow by sophia.

  • Spiritualized - 'Broken Heart'

    is pretty depressing, but beautiful.

    • halluah

      i think that song is one of the music movings i have ever heard

  • maybe not saddest

    but how to dissapear completely by radiohead is definitly the most depressing(yet amazing)

    also, motion picture soundtrack makes me want to cry, but not in a sad way.
    odd

    • Motion

      Picture Soundtrack was the first thing that came to my mind. It's not really depressing though.

  • Sing by Slowdive.

    The intro is the saddest sounding thing in the world. It actually sounds like crying.

  • red house painters

    drop.

    beautiful too.

  • one night stand

    the aloof

  • Say What you Want by Texas.

    Truth.

    • the blockbusters theme tune

      gets me every time

  • Grace Cathedral Park by Red House Painters

    devastating

    • As someone said above, Johnny Cash - Hurt

      That song is truly, truly desolate and sad. The video brings a tear to my eye every time.

      Also, the hollow bitterness and despair of "Dirt In The Ground" by Tom Waits.

      There's real pain in Lou Reed's "Baton Rouge" as well. It reads like bitter, lost, nasty, forlorn letter to his ex-wife, and manages to be sincerely nasty and desperately regretful and vulnerable at the same time. The entire "Ecstasy" album is massively underrated actually.

    • true^

      i was going to say that
      otherwise new friend by smog

      • why when you post a reply it goes 2 places

        under what you meant to reply to?its really really irratating

        • but that reply didn't

          i was agreeing with grace cathedral park

  • execution

    by david thomas broughton

    is very unlikely to be the saddest song ever written.

    it's quite sad though. makes me sniff.

  • runaway train by soul asylum!

    oh i dont know

    • Suicide - Keep your dreams

      Kenickie - And that's why
      Nothing stays the same - Elastica

      • .

        it's a motherfucker - Eels

        E's mom and sister died in the same year.
        This bit gets me every time -

        It's a motherfucker
        Getting through a Sunday
        Talking to the walls
        Just me again

        • ^^ definitely

          also Broken Heart by Spiritualized and The Eternal by Joy Division

  • perhaps

    Here by Pavement. I don't even know what he's talking about some of the time but it has this tragic clarity and finality about it and the way he sings the high bits... amazing.

    Or maybe Have You Forgotten by the Red House Painters. That's pretty fucking sad.

  • the saddest song

    Eels - Elizabeth on the Bathroom Floor.

    its on electro shock blues, and as someone said above, Es mom and sister died in the same year. His mum of cancer, and his sister of suicide.

    'My names elizabeth. My life is shit and piss'

  • .

    Newborn by Elbow chokes me up a bit too. Not really the saddest song, but it has so much emotion coming through

    • good one

      also Switching Off by Elbow...

      • yes

        yes
        and yes
        "you're the only sense the world hasever made" is one of my favourite lines of ever.

  • .

    Sorry this is my last one..

    Shadowlands by Ryam Adams.

    • ^^^ YES

      And I See Monsters, Harder Now That It's Over, Blue Sky Blues - a lot of Ryan is sad.

      • truesay

        basically everything by ryan. ever.

  • bruce springsteen - philadelphia

    yup

    • the spark that bled

      by The Flaming Lips.

  • The Wombles

    Wipe those womble tears from your eyes.......does me everytime and has done since I was 5 years old.

    • Nick Drake

      Black Eyed Dog - You know he was lost to depresesion when you hear this song. Painfully sad. Also, Things Behind The Son from Pink Moon.

      Bonnie Prince - Knockturne from I see a darkness

      Cat Power - Half of you from You are Free. Dont know why, it just gets me everytime

      On a happier note, i'm gonna get drunk tonight!

      • I threw it all away

        or 'if you see her say hello' by Bob Dylan.

        Bob's just got that 'i cant believe what ive done' thing down pat.

  • No Distance Left to Run - Blur

    Find the River - REM

    A mate of mine had 'What a wonderful world' played at his funeral earlier this week. Now officially the saddest song ever.

  • ...........

    'Cold and Dead' - William Elliott Whitmore

    :'(

    • sad song

      its all by myself by eric carmen

  • Blur

    No Distance Left To Run. I can barely listen to it.

    • I agree with lots of these

      especially Twilight and Casmir Pulski Day - that 'And he takes and he takes and he takes' bit at the end is heartbreaking.

      I always thought CODY by Mogwai was quite sad too.

  • two that come to mind first...

    Hurt by NIN (especially the J. Cash version)

    Down an August Path by Felt

    • Hmmmmmm

      Maybe The Weeping Willow by Grandaddy (fantastic and beautiful piano lines and the lyrics of course...."To wakre and be haopy again"....very self indulgent, or Perfect Day by Lou Reed....

      Not in such a sad way but full of hope at times, especially the last section withe "Reap what you so" part......the strings, piano etc are just beautiful.

      • Fuck me

        *To wake and be happy agaon*

        • hahahah

          I give up :(

          • Kermit

            "It's Not Easy Bein Green"

            followed by:

            "Rainbow Connection"

            • On the stairs

              or whatever it weas called by Kermit's nephew

  • Can't be bothered

    to read the whole thread so not sure if anyone's said this before but.....

    I know it's over - The Smiths

  • Queen - These Are The Days Of Our Lives

    Because they all knew what would happen within the next yr :(

    • It has to be I Know It's Over

      but also Explosions In The Sky - The Moon Is Down - the guitar at 5.45 always makes my heart sink. But that song has a lot of hope too.

      • ..

        "Dusty in Here" or "When People Are Dead" by The Go-Betweens. Or "Tide of Life" by The Band of Holy Joy. In fact, "Tide of Life" and "Fishwives" are perhaps more disturbingly morbid than depressing. I love both songs.

        • Mayonaise

          By the Pumpkins.

          • i would say

            she's leaving home - the beatles

  • Me Ves Y Sufres

    by Hope of the states

  • AESDADSGFUIKGPO

    Agree with Hurt / I Know It's Over (tho its surely beaten by Never Had No One Ever) / No Distance

    For me though...

    Anything off 'Pet Sounds' (esp Thats Not Me) and Cry Yer Eyes by the Streets...

    • Except

      Sir Slooppy John B... obviously.

      Also....

      "I Don't Wanna Grow Up"

      the Ramones

  • hows about

    leonard cohen - the partisan

    not written by him but still preety moving

    • I like that song-

      "There were three of us this morning, I'm the only one this evening"

      • I just called to say I love you

        but for all the wrong reasons

  • I'm agreeing with P_V

    on Needle In The Hay by Elliot Smith, but I think it's partly to do with the scene from Royal Tenenbaums that it soundtracks.

    It's such a gut-punch of a scene.

    Casimir Pulaski Day as well, mainly for that "at the Bible study we lift our hands and pray over your body, but nothing ever happens" line. Again, it's like a punch.

    • c.f. that line in casimir pulaski day

      truly sobworthy

  • Tears In Heaven - Eric Clapton

    I think it's the mor epersonaly connections I have that I relate to that song more than the song itself actually, although it is quite a sad song alone.

    • Id Say .....

      No distance left to run for def is one

      Hear Me Now by Jimmy Eat World .... and there was a song from randall and hopkirk deceased series by pulp vs spacek sisters (i think) .. which gets to me but i forget the name of the track and i aint going upstairs to check the cd case

  • I may need to revise my choice

    Dry Drunk Emperor by TVOTR is eating my insides on a dark friday alone.

    • Famous Blue Raincoat

      Gets my vote... But it's close.

      Poses by Rufus wAinwirght is also soul-crushing.

  • Epitaph to my heart

    by the Magnetic Fields. I defy anyone to not listen to that song and just feel a wee lump in their throat!

    • ^ I fear it just made me grin^

      I just put it on for the first time in an age and I'm very grateful that you got me to do that. There are many very moving songs amongst the 69 and i guess it's how we interpret them to personal experience that makes them affecting. Epitaph to my heart didn't do it for me though.

  • King of Carrot Flowers pt 1 - Neutral Milk Hotel

    Hopeful as well though

    Bachelor of Science by Buck 65

    The most banal, average lyrics, but absolutely heartbreaking for it.

    • beck - lost cause

      scott walker - the old man's back again
      stina nordenstam - crime, dynamite, this time john, so this is goodbye, little star.... stina covers all the 'sad music' bases.

  • Spooky

    By The 3D's.

    stunning. from the album The Venus trail. find it. buy it. love it.

  • "One Last Goodbye" by Anathema

    .

  • Without a doubt,

    it's The Band Played Waltzing Matilda sung by June Tabor...heartbreaking.

    • None of you know the meaning of a sad song...

      and as you all hate girls/women here is one of the most heart-wrenching ever from The Manics, Wish i Had Been Born a Girl - off This Is My Truth Tell Me Yours, second only to Nobody Love you about Richey.

      • "This Is My Truth Tell Me Yours"

        quite often brings me close to tears. Probably not in the same way.

  • Smog - I Break Horses

    "Tonight I'm swimming out to my favourite island, and I dont want to see you swimming behind me"

    He's not coming back.

    • agreed

      'i break horses' makes me die a little bit, everytime i listen to it... it's quite nasty and quite lovely at the same time.

  • basically the whole ouvre of Elbow

    with special mention going to: Switching Off, Great Expectations, Powder Blue, An Imagined Affair, and their cover of August and September by The The.

    also, Thom Yorke's favourite Radiohead song. For a while about two years ago I had the words "this isn't happening" constantly running around my head.

    • Elbow really get me, too

      Especially Switching Off, which is just about my favourite song.

      Also: Ballboy - I gave up my eyes - just heartbreaking.

      I got shivers down my spine reading through peoples' choices on this thread. Great stuff.

    • .

      Switching Off very nearly reduced me to tears at V04. The sky was purple, it was a warm evening and i had a lump in my throat as Garvey sang the last line of the song.

      August and September is also indeed stunning.

    • I think

      Samson by Regina Spektor is incredibly moving, but thts for personal reasons.

      In the same way that Id on't want to get over you by the magnetic fields also brings a lump to my throat.

  • Tecumseh Valley by Townes Van Zandt is pretty fucking heartbreaking.

    country records have a habit of never being happy.

    • a lot of joy division songs

      atmosphere, decades, the eternal.

  • It's probably

    Lick My Love Pump

  • MAN OF THE WORLD - FLEETWOOD MAC

    "but i just wish i had never been born..."

    ouch

    • spiritualized

      broken heart

  • Strange Fruit

    • The Smiths

      "Well I Wonder". It's even got rain effects on it!

    • for mr T,

      you are wholey correct

      • Drugs Don't Work - The Verve

        No Surprises - Radiohead
        How To Dissapear Completely - Radiohead

  • broken heart by spiritualized

    is the saddest most beautiful thing ever. every time i hear it it seems more emotive.

    Though I have a broken heart
    Im too busy to be heartbroken
    Theres a lot of things that need to be done
    Lord I have a broken heart

    Though I have a broken dream
    Im too busy to be dreaming of you
    Theres a lot of things that I gotta do
    Lord I have a broken dream

    And Im wasted all the time
    Ive gotta drink you right off of my mind
    Ive been told that this will heal given time
    Lord I have a broken heart

    And Im crying all the time
    I have to keep it covered up with a smile
    And Ill keep on moving on for a while
    Lord I have a broken heart

  • hmm...

    Little Lost Soul by Third Eye Foundation. I think it's about his dead cat.

  • Something by Mark Kozelek.

    I can't decide what, though.

    Probably something from his live record, i think.

    It makes me cry.

  • mmmm

    Leonard Cohen- Bird on a wire
    Radiohead- Fake Plastic trees

  • The Modern Lovers

    Hospital

  • agree with lots of these

    especially Twilight by elliott smith, broken heart by spiritualized and casimir pulaski day by sufjan stevens.

    i would also nominate most of "the sophtware slump" by grandaddy (esp the first track, the last track and underneath the weeping willow), sunflower by Low, and believer by suzanna and the magical orchestra (off a rough trade comp a few years back).

    *sighs* i feel a bit sad now!

  • Ruby's Arms

    is good.

  • hmmm

    About Today- The National
    Good Woman- Cat Power
    I See a Darkness - BPB
    Hurt - Johnny Cash
    When You See Her, Say Hello - Bob Dylan
    Chelsea Hotel - Leonard Cohen
    Cold Winter- Malcolm Middleton
    I Awoke- James Yorkston
    I Lost Someone - James Brown - in fact, anything off Dave Godin's Deep Soul Treasures compilations.

    • i rekkon

      its 'i want you' by elvis costello. devastating.
      'levi stubbs tears' by billy bragg makes me cry.

  • Cat Power - Names

    And Mike or Hives Hives by Xiu Xiu.

    • Nebraska

      by Bruce Springsteen - relentlessly bleak and pitiless.

      Also much of Sophia's earlier stuff.

      • Two Headed Boy (Part 2)

        by Neutral Milk Hotel. (strangely uplifting though)

        • Patcche

          ....

        • Patcche

          ....

          • "Patches...

            I'm depending on you son,
            to pull the family through,
            my son, it's all left up to you."

            I'm whelling up just thinking about it.

  • Suha by Xiu Xiu

    makes me genuinely feel suicidal. Hives Hives is sad (obviously), but you just know in Suha that her life will drag on forever and never change.

    Strange Fruit and Hurt of course. 'Names' by Cat Power is not exactly the happiest song ever, either.

  • 'The Picture' or 'Unhappy Anniversary'

    by Loudon Wainwright.

    He's the master of sad, bittersweet songs that don't slide into mawkishness.

    • Ballboy-I Lost You But I Found Country Music

      I lost you, but i found country music
      I found country music to hold me and soothe me
      the way you used to do

      and I miss you, but luckily there's music
      luckily there's music
      to get me through

      and I think of you everyday of my life
      and everyday I miss you and wonder and guess
      what you are listening to
      and everyday I miss you and wonder and guess
      what you are listening to
      what you are listening to
      what you are listening to

      • thanks to last.fm

        this isn't so much of a problem these days :)

        great song though, i haven't listened to ballboy in ages, need to rectify that

  • for me, the saddest songs

    are the ones with which i have an emotional attachment of some description.

    as such:

    queen - bohemian rhapsody
    explosions in the sky - magic hours
    ryan adams - winding wheel

    • i wholeheartedly agree on the sentiment

      for me they are

      Bamboleo - gipsy kings
      im with you - avril lavigne
      chasing rainbows - shed seven